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writes: Hello all.I met a girl about 2 months ago, who is currently living with her boy friend. In her mind it is over with them, but he bullies her emotionally, making her think shes the one whos always in the wrong. He smokes a lot of weed, and never does anything to help her.Since i met her, we have spent quite a bit of time together going on days out and her coming round watching movies and that. We have everything in common, get on like a house on fire, and i have really fallen for her in a MASSIVE way. Ive told her i really like her alot, and she told me she really likes me too, we have kissed a few times in her weaker moments when she had dropped her guard, because she does not want to hurt me, but she says that she misses me all the time.Is there anything i can do to help her out, giving her the confidence boost that she needs to finally shred this lingering lazy arse, so i can show her how life should be lived, and what love is all about ??? :-)Or am i just best of getting on with my life and chillin out speaking to her until she realises what she is missing out on ... HELP :-) Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006): You can certainly talk to her and encourage her to move out IF she tells you that is what she wants to do! What I'm saying is to be supportive of her, but let her be the one to raise the subject.
You could go look at apartments with her if she wants to do that. Its not a good idea to move in with you, however. This is because one she gets rid of this guy she will need time to sort herself out, her thoughts and feelings and direction for her life.
Good luck!
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