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writes: I am currently going through a hard break-up. I cheated on him but he still is willing to be friends. He says he still cares for me. If I give him his space, will he ever come back to me?
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I hope if things don't work out with you and him that you can hold a friendship together as an exboyfriend is someone that knows you inside out and will pretty much always be an honest friend to go have and go to with pretty much anything.
Whatever happens I hope you learnt from your cheating mistake and seen what cheating can do and that it helped you to lose what matters to you the most, and if you get back together or find someone else you don't make this mistake a second time because you might not be lucky enough to either get the second chance or friendship out of it.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd just like to honestly say thanks. They are words of inspiration as well as reality and i really appreciate it. I guess time will only tell...
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
You did possibly the worse thing to can to someone you love, he put his love and trust into a relationship with you and you came along and hurt him and took away his trust and possibly killed everything he had for you by doing this your very lucky he is still wanting you two to still stay friends because alot of people would have cut all ties completely and that would have been it.
I think the best thing you can do is test the waters and ask him what the future may hold for you both while also telling him you made a silly mistake and regret, the worse he will do is tell you that there is and never will be any future for you both in anyway apart from friends, but at least you will know and can try to move on.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): If you cheated on him, did you really expect he would want to continue to be your boyfriend? If you care for him, what made you do that?
Evidently, you regret cheating. I guess you let him know you were sorry and wanted another chance??
Maybe as he says, he is willing to be friendly. However, he has to think about whether he feels he can trust you if you were to get back together. Did he hold out any possibility of getting back, or was the break-up absolutely final?
You have to give him space, in any case. Whether he comes back is something nobody can answer. Time will tell.
Take care, good luck.
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