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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

When travelling, what are your pet peeves about the people you meet and the places you visit outside of your own country?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3156 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - This is not a relationship issue, it's just something recreational if any of you wants to humour me up. So : yesterday I was reading on a travellers' forum a thread called "Why Italians are so rude." Now, .. Italian can be rude, I am not argui...

We’ve been dating one month and I found his arrest records online! Should I ask him about it? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I’ve been dating a wonderful man for a month. We’re very compatible, he’s family oriented and successful, and does everything big and little to show he cares for me. All signs are very good. He’s an entrepreneur and there’s plenty of info about him ...

Any advice on getting emergency funds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Hi, this is isn't really a relationship question but I need help. I live in the U.S and I am in need. I have a full-time job, make decent money etc. my fiancé and I are purchasing a home. We complete everything in July. Now, we have an emergency and ...

My boyfriend sometimes blurts out something that just sounds wrong! What do I do in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hello, Need some advice. My boyfriend is a really wonderful guy! My only issue is that sometimes he means to say one thing and it will come out wrong, especially with friends/acquaintances or when a little tipsy. For example, we were meeting ...

I thought we were on the same page about a baby, but now he wants to go travelling.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - A year a go I found out I had pcos and it horrified me that I would never conceive. I spoke with my partner and said I don't really want to wait to try for a baby - I'm 24 so it wasnt unrealistic. A year later and all of a sudden my partner wants to ...

I have a toxic mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I have a toxic mother. Shes done a lot for me, but shes also damaged me a lot. Background: my mom is unhappy in her marriage. My dad bullies her. She does not make very much money, so she relies on my dad, and my dad takes full advantage of it. M...

What are the risks of having a roommate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Have you ever had a roommate? Hey aunts, I need some advice on my living situation. I'm in college and I'm about to graduate with my degree. I also started taking classes to get into the medial field (AS) I'm pretty much happy about school. I'...

Do I stop making our favorite food because it bothers our 80 year old neighbor?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Hello We live in an apartment building and are a mid aged couple. I cook for my husband on daily basis, we are both Canadian. We really enjoy curry and maybe twice a month I will cook it. My neighbour who is in her 80s and frail health mention...

I'm considering divorce but can I find someone at my age? How do I believe in myself again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - I'm 43 year old woman considering a divorce. Overall, I've been told that I have a great personality, I'm easy to get along with, intelligent, and fun. I also look and dress younger. I have a career and make decent money. My main problem, however...

What am I doing wrong? Women seem scared of me. Haven't been able to set up a date in three years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - I have problems with women and I'm taking time away from dating (or trying to date) until I've found myself, developed confidence, and have a proper view of women in general. I've struggled pretty badly for the past 7 years or so. My previous...

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

Does she love me for my money? She never offers to pay!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - My girlfriend Lisa and I have been going together for almost ten months and our relationship seems to be sailing along quite smoothly. We're very compatible. We always have a lot of fun together and she never nags me. She's beautiful, classy and ...

How do you get a spark, a true buzz or sense of purpose for life ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3157 days ago

22 April 2016 (M) - How do you get a spark for life ? For years now I have been drifting through with no sense of purpose and no matter what I try I can not get a true buzz or sense of purpose from life . I have tried to look at new hobbies , new goals , bettering ...

What do you do for someone who made your life happy again ? my friend helped and supported me after abuse I suffered

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I had a horrible childhood, I was physically and sexually molested and raped by my step father for 7 years. When I was 20, I met a guy on an online adult site . He was 15 years older then me. I was still living at home and my step father cont...

Should I let my relationship influence my career? I don't know what I should choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

21 April 2016 (M) - Hey, Friends I'm feeling very confused about my career. I can't decide my career, I want to marry my gf and her parents may get her married after a couple of years but I don't think that 2 years are enough for me to be something. I still have to pu...

Should I say something to my boss tomorrow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I just got in an argument with my boss well basically his my general manager.And I do not know what to do or if I should do or say anything tomorrow.. He said that I have a nasty attitude and a nasty way of answering his questions. S...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

Why do co-workers like to dig into other people's personal lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - I know these people mean well but I'm not interested in making friends at work. I'm just there to do my job and that's it. I'm not saying I act anti-social. I still talk to my co-workers about gerenal stuff, joke around, But, I don't like to talk ...

How do I get back to an even keel with my longtime manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - Not a love question but I am fighting to understand my current problem and dearcupid has always been useful for this. Now this could be long so bear with me. I've been at my current job for 6 years. My manager has always been a bit of an enig...

What can I do? Why does my husband choose to associate with this bad company of friends? I'm feeling uncomfortable with this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - My husband's friends makes me feel uncomfortable. We just hit our 1yr anniversary and it seems throughout it all our major disagreement has been about the company he keeps. Majority of his friends are into fraud and bad business. I have checked...

Why would my ex sign my son's birthday card this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - Hi, This may be a strange question... my son who is 12 today, received a birthday card from his dad (my ex)that was signed with my ex's name instead of love Dad etc. In brackets next to my ex's name he has written in brackets 'your daddy'. He has n...

Our manager has threatened to fire us if we don't close our Facebook group

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - Okay, so where i work we all have a facebook ‘group chat’ in this group chat there is over 50 of us in this group so basically nearly everyone from work. We use this chat on facebook to organise nights out i work in a casino and the casino is a 24hr ...

We've been dating almost 7 months and he wants us to marry and move out of province

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - I'm a single mom with two kids, a four year old daughter and six your old son. I've been dating a guy for almost 7 months. He is great with my kids and they adore him. Last night he proposed ! I was not expecting it at all and he even said he knew ...

Is this older, married man, hitting on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Can anyone help me understand what's going on with a older (48) MARRIED man from Church? I used to really like him as a friend/ advisor kind of role to me. Lately I have wondered if he likes me more than he should. When we talk only always rubs my ...

Should I still visit my husband after he hung up on me from jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Hi. This is a bit of a complex question, or maybe it just feels that way. But here it goes. I'm a 27F married with 3 young children. My husband was arrested and is currently in jail because he made a STUPID decision to help a friend and got wrap...

He has a girlfriend, so why is he eyeing other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy at the gym that i initially developed feelings for. However, after finding out that he had a girlfriend, I've settled my feelings for him, and we've become pretty good friends. I'm pretty popular at the gym, and know pretty much ...

I always liked girls but I'm afraid I might be gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

16 April 2016 (M) - Hi everyone ! I would really appreciate some insight as I am clearly confused as to whats going on right now, driving me insane !!! So all my life I have liked girls, I remember plenty of crushes that ive had, from elementary - highschool and my l...

Until recently nothing has bothered me. But now I find myself conflicted. How do I go forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

15 April 2016 (M) - 25 years, 25 years. I have been caring for both my parents and my sister for 25 years and to be honest nothing has really bother me. Until recently, my brother has suddenly reappeared in our lives after almost 10 years of nothing. The promises h...

Is my boss correct to pay me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - My boss says she's going to pay me the 1st and 15 th every month, but that she has up to 5 days past pay date to pay me. Is this correct, should I accept this? I dont make that much anyways 25,000 a year. Also, I am living with my bf and have bill...

I think he is asking for too much, but he says he isn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I've been married for six months and we've been struggling. I had never lives on my own before, so I really had no idea about all the housework that needs to be done.I've gotten a little better, but there's no pleasing my husband. I cooked and ...

Husband lied for four years about sleeping with my friend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

15 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my husband for seven years this year, married for two. We have three children together. Two girls and a boy. 7, 4 and 9 months. I have a friend, we will call her Lee, and we started becoming friends about two years ago when she foun...

My homosexuality is killing me and left me alone with no options

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

14 April 2016 (M) - So I am posting a big question about my life, I am not sure if it fits with the nature of the contents here but I hope to get an answer! I am 34 years old and I feel that I am 50 years old , gay, middle eastern to Muslim parents, I didn’...

While struggling with depression should I open up now, to him, and risk making things worse for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - Hi, I've realized that I might be struggling with depression and it's taking a toll on my relationship with my closest friend. He knows me better than anyone and knows that I'm upset and something is happening to me but doesn't know why, and in...

What do you think of a guy who is torn between two women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - This guy and a girl date for a year. it's not an easy relationship. They fight a lot but somehow make it work. One day he cheats on her, she finds out and they break up for 9 months. She wants him back so they get back together. Right around t...

Have you ever asked your partner to 'unfriend' an opposite sex friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - Would you or have you ever asked your significant other to unfriend someone of the opposite sex on Facebook? For whatever reason, you did not want them associating with this person; jealousy or insecurity issues included among the reasons. Has ...

Ladies, how would you react to your boyfriend sending you flowers?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

13 April 2016 (M) - Hi All Ive been dating quite a while now, things are good generally I do get her the occasional 'just because' gifts, her fave choccies, an engraved pen when she started a new job etc- nothing too overboard though. I would like to get h...

When will I get a life partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

12 April 2016 (M) - MOD NOTE: Original poster, I am approving this but DC is NOT a dating site. Maybe you can get suggestions how to meet someone... now I am 36yrs almost to hit 40 I feel very sad to be single I have been so shy for many years such that its hard to ...

How can I get my pregnant girlfriend to understand my point about moving in with my parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

8 April 2016 (M) - When I was 17 I got a girl pregnant. We weren't really dating just hooking up and she wanted to give baby up for adoption but I wanted to keep it. My family support me and when my son was born my gf signed over the baby to me and my parents have ...

Should my boyfriend be putting in more effort to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - I have a general question about a relationship that I've been in for just over a year now. I love my boyfriend. We both have our ups and downs and have been working on creating an amazing relationship together as we love each other more than we've ...

What would keep you from being in a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

7 April 2016 (M) - What's up guys, I've been away from here for almost a year but I've had something on my mind for quite a while that I'd like to here people's opinions on why they don't want to get into relationships. I've heard this from a large number of my fri...

In debt and I'm feeling low. Is there a way to get through all this pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

6 April 2016 (F) - I feel my life is going down a dark hole. me and my ex decided to give our relationship another go but hes made no effort and is on a dating site , he doesnt know that i know hes on there (my friend told me so i checked it out myself ) i have 1 ...

What considered proper etiquette for college evaluation visits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

5 April 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for years We now live together. He has been divorced for 16 years and his 17 year old son has recently started looking at colleges. So far he and his ex wife and son have done day trips but they may turn into ...

My dad is having an affair! Will it last?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

4 April 2016 (M) - My dad is having an affair with the tennant that lives in our house that we rent. She is literally the scum of the earth (this is not an opinion). She is possibly on job-seekers allowance, claiming benefits, she's never owned her own house ever, all ...

We have great sexual chemistry but there are red flags all over. Should I continue or leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

4 April 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. We are both young I'm 20 he is 21. I'm in university and he has a part time job. We have amazing sexual chemistry and he is a very considerate and affectionate guy, a "good guy. But he has broken some ...

Have you ever seen the same person over the past few years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

3 April 2016 (F) - Have you ever seen the same person over the past few years? When I was 22 I went to my very first hookah bar with my best friend, I was having a blast! But while I was in there two guys came in and sat across from me and my best friend. They wer...

How do I protect myself from this mismanaging manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - Hi, This is not a personal relationship question-but work related. I quit my job with a big pharma in Nov 2015 and joined a new company in Dec 2015. My old Manager who tried to make me stay back also joined this new company in Feb 2016. Sh...

How do I ask my Mom for the package I ordered? It's a vibrator

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - Okay I've been thinking about sex a lot and often. At my school and area it's not hard to hook up and I'm not like that,so I bought two bullet vibrators. My mom ordered a mouse pad for her computer and lucky me they came on the same day.... She got ...

Do you think he and his wife think they'll get back together? what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

1 April 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a man who's 6 yrs younger than me and he's married with 2 kids but they are not living together. This is the second time they seperated. When I first met him he said he wasn't sure what was going on between them yet. They have t...