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writes:MOD NOTE: Original poster, I am approving this but DC is NOT a dating site. Maybe you can get suggestions how to meet someone...now I am 36yrs almost to hit 40 I feel very sad to be single I have been so shy for many years such that its hard to start a girl I even fear I might approach one then she will say no. this made me make a solid concrete decision that I will wait antill someone make the first move and also I promised to myself I won't disappoint her by saying no because I guess its feels bad. the worst thing here in s Sudan girls never approach boys for a relationship. so I am in big problem. is there anyone there ready to relocate or call me to come in her life as a boyfriend. or help me. my home country is kenya. I really seriously need a partner I am one of Jehovah's witness.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 April 2016):
 Yes I agree with Denizen, talk to people in your church about your problems, talk to your family about wanting a life partner. Gain more confidence, don't wait until a girl comes and talks to you, make the first move, smile be friendly with girls. Don't come on to strong or this will might scare them away, just start by being friendly and build it up. Take things slow and get to know the girl. Your post sounds like you are so desperate to have a partner that you will settle with anyone but you should only settle with someone you love and share passion with.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (12 April 2016):
 People within your church are usually very helpful in finding suitable partners, usually someone who shares your beliefs.
I think you should talk to the elders in your community and ask their help and guidance.
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