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How do I ask my Mom for the package I ordered? It's a vibrator

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Question - (2 April 2016) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2016)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Okay I've been thinking about sex a lot and often. At my school and area it's not hard to hook up and I'm not like that,so I bought two bullet vibrators. My mom ordered a mouse pad for her computer and lucky me they came on the same day.... She got both packages,but she hadn't mentioned the vibrators,but what do I do!? I used my own money and I don't wanna get pregnant but I still want to experience this. How do I ask for my package!?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2016):

Honesty is the best policy.

Go and request for your package when you and your mom are alone in the home. If the discussion goes with what it is, openly say what it is. If she becomes argumentative, say that you don't want to get involved with someone real and get pregnant. It is absolutely okay to have these feelings at this age and I'm sure your mom understands these natural changes in body at this age. Build a confidence with her. It will go a long way for your life.

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A female reader, mystiquek United States +, writes (2 April 2016):

mystiquek agony auntHey mom, a package came in for me yesterday..did you happen to see it? Thanks!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 April 2016):

Tisha-1 agony aunt"Hey Mom, I think you accidentally took a package that was addressed to me the other day. Could I please have it? Thank you!"

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A female reader, femmenoir Australia +, writes (2 April 2016):

femmenoir agony auntHi,

this would depend upon whether of not, your name and address appeared on the exterior of the package, which i doubt, because of the personal nature of your items.

I guess if your name was on the package, your Mum wouldn't have been very happy to see what you'd ordered, especially as you're still quite young.

I would encourage you to not approach your Mum, because she is older and wiser and she'll put two and two together.

If you are that eager to try the vibrator, then re-order more, although i realise this will cost you more money, but what other option do you have?

All the best!

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia +, writes (2 April 2016):

Ivyblue agony auntYou don't, order another one and have it sent to a post box.

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A female reader, wrathykins United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2016):

wrathykins agony auntJust ask her if anything came in the post for you. If she asks what it is, just say it's private...because it is. If she's the sort of mother that would hound you to find out what it is, just make something up that's believeable.

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