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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Question for the ladies: Do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Question for the ladies: do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range? As a man, I'd have to say the old saying that ...

My son is taking after his aggressive father. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - I have a son who will be turning 4 at the beginning of September. He is a sweet little boy and loves giving hugs and being silly; however he is very agressive the past few months. He primarily likes playing alone, occassionally he enjoys playing ...

Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - A general question, for everyone out there. Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS? I'm meet these lovely, kind, hard-working and attractive men, who have similar interests as me and whom I can really talk to, but I'm just...

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...

Emotionally abusive, untrusting, 10 year older boyfriend wants kids with me NOW, or else he's gone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. Some background info for my question: I'm 22, my boyfriend is 32. We've been living together about 2 years. We have had some problems in the past due to his emotional unstability. He has been jealous and paranoid, he has been emo...

Am I abusive to my bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I am a girl, but I come from a long line of very similar men. I take after my father in personality, and that personality includes some obsessive behavior and addictive behavior. I'm worried I may have also inherited some of the family abusive ...

Are girls really like apples in a tree?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - so...I have a question for the boys here, today I stumbled across this "Girls are like apples in a tree" quote and it got me thinking, are girls really like apples in a tree?? is the whole "the greatest apples are at the top of the tree...(...

I can't figure out my own feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - So... how do I make this simple..... ok, thing is, I really don't know what I'm thinking about her! I'll just start of with how it started: I'm in second year of college and we've been classmates since first semester and then around the second w...

Do you think that my teacher had deep feelings for me? Or some form of emotional connection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi there, Good God do I know you have all been asked this question millions of times. I know I should take my own advice and read the answers you have all written to similar questions to mine, but I guess it feels more personal when you reply t...

Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always ...

Will I have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Does anyone know if I will have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage (my future stepchildren) if we divorce and I have to pay him maintenance for whatever reason? The children live with their mother. My fiancé p...

How do I boost my self confidence? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi. Am female, 21, about 4 ft 11 and am not physicaly developed and because of this, i really lack self confidence. How do i boost my self confidence and how can i dress in a way that will flatter me. Also i have stomach fat, folds and love handles, ...

How can a guy be so selfish and hurt me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Why would guy be so selfish and hurt me so much:(? Am fuming!! I loved my ex boyfriend so much. I thoight we were in love and had a deep meaningful relationship, but he was faking it all the while! He dumped me saying he doesn't want a r...

I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he ...

Unwaranted feelings of infidelity....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I'm in a committed relationship and I've always been in faithful. I've always been a person who is against infidelity and never understood why anyone would do that. But lately I've been wanted to cheat, and i cant understand why. Help please!...

I don't want to like big women anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Okay people, I have a serious problem, I like bigger girls, like huge girls, and even making them gain weight for my pleasure, for some reason I find them highly attractive, but I don't like this attraction, I am also afraid my family would ridicule ...

I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me but I cant seem to move on and it still hurts so bad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Why can't I move on, why is the pain still so raw? I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me. I want to be able to move on, I want to smile again so why can't I. I still love him and wish I didn't because he as changed so much ...

Should I persue this guy, or stick with my long-time boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I was drunk and met a guy that I felt very strong feelings for, but I have a boyfriend of 2 years. Should I hang out with this guy again just to see if I really do have feelings for him and it wasn't the the booze talking, or should I not let it get ...

So confused if I still love him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a full 7 months now and we will be going on out 8th, its not crazy long but I knew when we first got involved in about 3 months time that I loved or love him but I am realizing that now I am feeling not so sure ...

Do women give men too much leeway in relationships? And too readily take him back after break-ups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Simple question for ladies and gentlemen....Do women tend to give men too much leeway in relationships? Do women take men back too often, too soon, too much after they have been done wrong?...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

I feel I should also sleep with someone else while I'm single to get this out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Im a in a real bad moral situation that i cannot seem to make a decision on. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl who i love dearly. We started growing distant and she broke up with me on the day my dog died. It was a real heartache and i asked ...

When does a guy know that he wants to marry a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, Background: He and I have been together for a little over a year. I now believe that he is the one I want to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. I have enough reasons to believe this. The thing is, we have not seriously di...

What's the deal with guys and big boobs?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - What is it about big boobs that guys like so much? I have small breasts, small waist and a big, round butt! My friends tell me I have a great body and that I should be proud, but there's something I don't get. I don't seem to receive that much ...

How can I find my father who my mother tried in every way to exclude from my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am a female, 46 years old, married with own family. I have a very weird relationship with my birth mother who refuses to discuss anything about my father to whom she was married to. As far as I can remember as a young child my mother's ...

He really wants another baby, but I'm scared of getting sick again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Dear Ageny aunts, I have been married for about four years and have a two-year old baby girl. I had hypremesis gravadirium throughout my first pregnancy and I have been to hell and back. Now my husband wants another baby, I'm scared to death of...

Is uni worth it or should I quit and live life like my brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I have a question about university and the point of it, because I'm a first year, just finished my first semester and I'm studying for a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in history. Lately it just seems that, for starters, if I did get my degree then ...

She never told me !! should I bring it up or leave it incase it hurts her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife 19 years. We have been married for 10 years. Recently, she reconnected with an old college friend of hers. This was a girl that I knew back in the day, too, as I met my wife in college and she was roommates with this ...

Intimidated by my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My chemistry teacher makes fun of me. Constantly. He treats me like I'm incompetent, dangerous in practical lessons, or otherwise stupid and inferior to the other people in my class. Only I get this treatment. He apparently doesn't realise ...

He still wants to see me even though we made a huge mistake !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (?) - Me and a guy friend from school used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stupidly ended up liking him more than i should, like these things tend to happen. Anyway, that ended and he got...

Do I have to meet him? Is it possible that he is still in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - please help me, this is the scenario: my ex-bf and i been together for almost 6yrs until he went to dubai for work. we had long distance relationship for more than a year until his american citizen old classmate who was in USA pop into his ...

Why am I attracted to narcissists and sociopaths?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - right so this is a bit of a weird question. for my past few relationships the girls ive seen have been classic narcissists. they made everything bout them, and it just got so that i couldnt stand it any longer and we broke up. but then i enter into ...

Any chance that he’ll come back around? What did I do wrong in the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Two years ago I started dating a man who is a single father. I have no children. He has full custody of his now 16yr old daughter and one year ago, found out he is also the father of a two year old son. (The mother located him 1.5yrs after the child ...

My confidence has gone after dating a man way out of my league!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so here is my dilemma. I am 33, I am ok looking, not ugly and some may say pretty, but not anything special just your average girl in the looks department. I would say a 5/6 out of 10. I have happened to meet a man who is 30 and who is drop dea...

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Or leave and face being on my own?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hiya!! I know you get a lot of these, but I would appreciate advice on my boyfriend. He is 26, lives and works in London and is the nicest bloke I have ever dated. He is caring, loving, would never raise a hand to me and has acccepted me wit...

Did rough sex cause me to bleed abnormally, or did it jumpstart my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing ...

Cheating on my girlfriend was a mistake, but this other woman wont leave me alone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I decided to stop masturbating then I started cheating on my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend of 3 years now she lives far away from me and we cannot have sex as often as we want. There is a girl next door whom I slept with two times, this new girl ...

Condo manager is bullying tenants and possibly abusive toward his wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Hi Aunts! I have a "relationship" question about my Condo Manager. Sorry it's so long. I hope since this isn't a romance-related question you will still be able to offer some advice because it is really bothering me... Basically, I live in a smal...

I'm starting to hate my husband but baby number 2 is on the way! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my spouse for 6 years, since i was 18 years old iv been with him. im starting to hate my husband and i cant seem to know why. i just do. we fight alot. we both disagree alot. even when we spend time alone together theres an akward ...

Guilty or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi i am a Pakistani girl and a muslim. So here is my story. I married my first cousin (my mother's sister son) back in 2008. But now we are divorced. The problem is i am a little guilty because it was I who asked for divorce due to several reasons. ...

Why can't I get a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I have been single now for about 2 years (I'm 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don't have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can't meet girls in school. I don't really like to go out and ...

Fighting a lot, worried I am just a notch on his bed-post and he never stands up for me.....so many problems with this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot here lately and we have been through a lot. I love my boyfriend so much but I feel like im getting tired of him and the fighting, we tried dealing with our problems and stop the fighting but 2 days ...

Will he ever be nice to me? How do I get my husband to respect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I Have been married for nearly 40 years. I married when very young. How can i get my husband to respect me? I have 2 children. The first left when he was 16 as he saw a lot going on here. The 2nd my husband loves very much. I have helped him to do ...

I finally left my husband of 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but I don't know how to deal with the pain

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - how do you survive after the cheating..? i finally left my husband for 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but i don't know how to deal with the pain ...

How to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Sorry this is so long, but I feel like I need to give the backstory and time progression of my last break-up. I'm really confused with my ex and his feelings towards me. Here's what happened: we broke up about 6 months ago. We were only together for ...

Why do people try to block out the past with relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Hi guys. I got a question. With relationships, why do people try to block out the past? Sometimes, you can ask your partner a question and they lie about something that happened in the past. Why do they do that? Why won't people admit ...

Is it reasonable that my boyfriend wants me to cut contact with my abusive ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and everything is wonderful. The only problem is he doesn't want me to have anything to do with my ex because of what happened in mine and my exs past. It was an semi abusive relationship. he ...

My GF has severe insecurity issues. How can I explain to her that her feelings are unwarranted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is insecure. To be fair here, I am a 39 separated guy. I have been separated for a while from my wife and it was by my choice and her and DO NOT want to work it out but there is a child between us. I am in the construction ...

First love or soul mate? Which one is more devastating to lose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Is losing your first love comparable to the feelings experienced when losing a 'soul mate'?...

Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung ...