A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing at me and all mad. When I responded with umm, what's the problem??? He said you know what...and swore some more. Eventually this exchange led to him flipping out about some blood all over his sheets. Now I will tell you, like I told him, I am not on my period...still on my BC pills and won't get my period until Thursday. So I checked my panties and sure enough there is just a little bit of blood. And again this morning, just a little bit when I peed. I also feel a tad sore down there. Is it likely that the because the sex was a little more rough that I am bleeding? Or could the rough sex have caused me to get my period early? Are these two situations completely different or possibly connected? We used three different positions: me on top, then doggy style, then him on top. He also fingered me before we started and then while we he was on top...he would stop, use his fingers, then start again, pause switch back to fingers, and so on and so forth for a few minutes. He is tall and skinny...as is his penis, it has never hurt before. My ex bf was much more endowed and I would sometimes have a couple spots of blood in my panties after sex with him from just straight missionary sex. Could the different combination of positions caused me to bleed? Do you think it was his fingers?? Ugh ...and how long should I expect to spot bleed if this is indeed from rough sex?Please help or give any information/thoughts. I just feel a little confused and frankly dirty after his mean texts. It's not my fault, right, if he was too rough and caused me to bleed.
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reader, found89 +, writes (28 June 2011):
No its not your fault first off and yes he could have brought your period into activation even tho your not bleeding heavy and sometimes like you said if the sex was rough it could have caused u to spot a little and u shouldn't fill bad or dirty it happens and need to explain that to that num nut before he take it to far and hopefully he comes to some type of scene good luck girl...
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