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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I am married but I am thinking about this other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I am married and i like a guy who is also married whenever i am around him he always acts like he is flirting with me. so how can i tell for sure if he is flirting with me and if he really likes me or not and what should i do, i think about him ...

He has suddenly stopped communicating and I am supposed to visit him soon!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hey. Ok...so I worked at this place over summer and I met this guy who also worked there...and we kinda got together towards the end (went on a few dates). Then, however, he had to quit and go back to uni, as did I. However, my uni is in London, ...

I always have revenge sex with friends and relatives of my exes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Okay this may be a long one here... I am going to describe the only THREE guys that have ever actually meant something to me in my life out of everybody, now I have been in relationships with a few guys but these three I cared about more than oth...

My cousin and I are in love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - ok i dont know where or who to turn to! ive done some research online and i kept getting similar questions on this sight! here's my problem....im 23 and my cousin is 28 we are very close we talk about everything....infact we even told each other how ...

When can you remain friends after a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I'd like to know other people's opinions on when not to stay friends. My partner (male) broke up with me, and told me he wanted to remain friends. After a month break, I agreed to this but I think I regret it now. I was really hurt when we spl...

Is it shallow for me to pursue women with small breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self ...

How can I keep from being jealous of my married lovers flirting with other women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I fear I have lost my married lover due to one jealous outburst in a year. I have always maintained complete discretion but last night I found myself angered by him talking openly with other women at a bar when I don't feel that I can even look at ...

What make her so protective of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope I can get some insight because right now I am feeling a bit confused. So here goes. I met this teacher when I was 15. We are both females. Very quick, we became close. At the time I was going through some rough patch...

Why not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - My guy an me had a great sex life until 2 months ago. He then could come, lost it with me. I find out he has been getting himself off. He has blamed loads of things. I have now given him ultimatum as ( he says I turn him on?!) but today he can get ...

What is THAT all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - ive been talking to a guy who claims he likes me and would like to get to know me better and possibly be my bf. every time we talk hes all going on about his ex girl friend.. he said he compares every girl to her and that she works in an ...

My wife lied about her past and I feel like I want to leave her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - My wife told me she only ever had one boyfriend before me and she only ever slept with him twice. After 23 years together i discover that she was in fact in a sexual relationship with him for 2 years and then with another guy for 6 months. Having ...

Dating a separated guy, who's wife wants him back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a very loving relationship with a separated guy for just about 2 years. He was only living on his own for about a month, when he and I met. He and his wife were kind of separated for many years (not sleeping in the same bedroom) prior ...

How do I get her off my bf ?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the deal, there's this girl in my class who pretty much hates me and likes my bf. So for revenge she decided to take advantage of my shyness and start hitting on my bf! She keeps clinging on to him and hugging him and all that and it ...

Cheating soulmate and fiance. Am I mad for still thinking of taking him back??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - My first real love i met in my mid 20's. It was instant intense love since the day we met we never left each others side and got along like life long friends with an extreme passion for one another. Everything went perfect till 6 months into the ...

How can I help her regain that lost faith?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of a year recently broke up with me, saying that she has lost faith in our relationship. I've had some crappy relationships in the past and I honestly thought we were doing good together. How can I help her regain that lost faith?...

If my ex dumped me then why does he ring me so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - My ex bf dumped me a week ago, i love him. Since we broke up he told me that he loves me twice. I don't understand what he wants, he says we can't be together because we don't work so why is he ringing me 4 to 5 times every day? Plus on his facebook ...

Do you think I am a slut?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Do you think I am a slut? I have been flirting with this guy for years, he likes me because I am shy, we have kissed a couple of times, we get on really well and very recently we were kissing and as we were kissing he asked me to make him cum, wh...

Why I Can't Get Over My Ex-Girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I am really struggling to get over my Ex-Girlfriend’s memories . Every night, I am having a dream about her, seeing her not happy in her life. I know I got her hurt with my over-possessiveness. But over the past few weeks, I have critical...

Do you think they are into polygamy with me as a potential second?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - A little over a month ago I started working at a new job. I was familiar with 2 - 3 of the managers because I had friends who worked at the same place, but I didn't know them by name and wasn't friends with them. When I started working one of the m...

This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have a complicated situation. I consider myself to be clear of mind and a high thinker. But this problem I simply cannot solve. My former flame and I were together for a short time. A year and a half. He was my first and only everyt...

Why it is Important for him to earn your Love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - The other day I had a thought and decided to write it down. I had several women write to me regarding this thought and so I decided maybe I should post it here for those of you women who wonder what it takes to make a man stay with you forever. T...

Suspicious acts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - If my boyfriend shaves before he sees his female co-worker, is he pursueing her? [Moderator note: The following was posted as a seperate question on the same topic from the same user] My live in boyfriend shaves everytime he is going to work with...

The good ones are taken, the ones who are available I don't want. Is this a normal part of the dating game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have been single for 2 years after my divorce. Why is everyone I meet or have a really strong chemistry and connection with is married or has a girlfriend. We end up just being friends, but it's hard because we both know that if he was single we...

I am a nice girl and I don't want to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have a problem with being too nice. I don't want to be too nice because I know sometimes I need to put my needs first. However, I find it difficult to let down a friend when they need me. It is just not in me to say NO. I question myself b...

My disabled boyfriend is using the internet to have an emotional affair. I feel worthless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - my parnter and I have been together 6 years, I am 25 he is 29. we live together, about 5 months ago he asked me if it was ok if he used the internet to make some friends, I said this was ok, because he is disabled and it makes it hard for him to ...

Why does everyone associate being lonely not having confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - My question is why does everyone associate being lonely not having confidence? I think that I am a lonely person, but I have plenty of confidence. My issue is just that I cant get anyone. I have a high IQ im athletic, I have 3 businesses, I...

Complicated problem. Feedback anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - Hey guys I really hope you can help me cause this is a bit complicated. I am 12 years old and I really like this girl I have known for years at one of my after-school programs. I have asked her out twice in the past 2 years and her answers were "we ...

Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...

How does a female tell when she is coming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello I Was Just Wondering? I Know Girls Cum Too! But How Can They Tell If They Are Cumming? And Is It Normal If You Can Not Tell When Your Cumming As A Feamle?...

Dating one, but in love with his friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm also in love with my best friend...but I'm dating another person. My friends have tried to help. Lets call him BFF is dating Lisa and I'm dating my bf. BFF and I have so much in common and we get into tickle fights every day we see eachother, ...

How do I tell my dad he is ruining my love life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I currently live with my fiancé and everything is great. My family lives in a town close by about 45 minutes away. My dad got a job in the town we live in so he doesn't like the commute. He asked if he could stay at our place if ...

Do you think a relationship with him is possible?

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23 October 2009 (F) - Hi and thanks for taking the time to read and comment on this i really appreciate it! Ok so here goes last week i went out with a group of friends, we were going to see a gig but it was still early so we went into a near by bar for a drink. we ...

I am a horny virgin but I don't think I am ready for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - im 15 and i keep feeling horny, but i havent had sex before what do you think i should do? i want to have sex but at the same time i dont think im as ready as i think, but i keep feeling horny. Help me please....

I feel obcessed with this woman and making sure she gets what's coming to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to do or how i can stop myself from feeling this way. I've had a pretty shit year with relationships. My boyfriend was living with a couple who verbally abused him and treated us like shit and him like a slave. You couldn't bel...

I know this is long, but I really need help. any advice or insight will be incredibly appreciated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - This is the backstory to the question. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years. We love each other very much. We have a stunning amount in common and a very powerful connection ie ( knowing what each other is thinking) calling ...