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writes:My ex bf dumped me a week ago, i love him. Since we broke up he told me that he loves me twice. I don't understand what he wants, he says we can't be together because we don't work so why is he ringing me 4 to 5 times every day? Plus on his facebook he has not changed his status to single yet. I'm so confused, any ideas? He's not a player so i know he's not messing me about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello just wanna say thank you to everyone who helped me with my problem. :) I have no contact with my ex now and i'm very happy. Just getting on with my life and carrying on with my studies. Thanks again for your help. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): He's keeping you on a string. I would ignore his phone calls, and go no contact with him. He broke up with you. If he loved you why would he go do that?Just ignore him. If you irgnore him, and he says he loves you he may realise and try to get you back (dont rely on that please). But if no real attempt, that the 'i love yous' are just a way for him not to feel so bad. You need to live your life and not wait around for him.
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reader, thewomanmenwant  +, writes (24 October 2009):
You don't want to believe he's a player because he's got you in the bag. He's using you as a cushion to get over the breakup. When men pull away, they still have to go through separation anxiety...he'll call for as long as he can.
The problem is, many women are stupid and don't get that men do this...they think a man loves them if he breaks up then call. But then they'll use the woman's compassion to get over the pain of the breakup on their end and move on. You're left thinking, I thought he loved me, and he's going to be like, "Hey, thanks for being there for me but I gotta split."
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 October 2009):
Oh yes he is playing you about. If he loved you, why did he dump you? Talk to him and find out what he really wants. Anything less than a committed relationship with you and he's not worth your time.
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