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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I always think about doing it with a girl. Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always ...

Should I continue to pursue my major or give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok so i know this isnt a relationship question but i really need help. right now i am studying to get my BSW degree. but im conservative. i am constantly surrounded by liberals that attack me for my beliefs. all i want to do is get this degree and ...

How do I move forward and meet someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, and I really want to be in a relationship right now. My only problem is that I sort of have anxiety issues when I'm forced to interact with other people in public situations, so I often find it hard to make friends and meet new ...

Should I try to bury the hatchet and send my daughter a card for her 21st???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My daughter's birthday is coming up Monday October 26. She will be 28 years old and she and I don't talk, her decision, not mine. She moved out June 08 and only speaks to my sister. I'm torn whether to send her a birthday card or just ignore it. ...

Crossdressing husband worries.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Several years ago my husband/bf said to me he liked to crossdress and at first I was okay with it because I thought it was like some sort of sex game between us until I discovered he started secretly taking some of the clothing to his apartment and ...

Can someone impartial tell me whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I had been together for 7 years, but broke up about 4 months ago. We have since been seeing different people. He contacted me about 3 weeks ago, and we did some talking about getting back together. He said some very important things about ...

This hiccup in our sex life is getting to be a big problem...any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My sex life with my boyfriend has recently gotten to a point where there's a bit of a hiccup. He is frequently coming too quickly. In the beginning of our relationship this would happen every now and then, but a lot of the time we'd still have som...

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that alt...

Met this guy at a pub, has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when ...

What is the right age for a serious relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 boy. I never had any girlfriend. I want to make only one relationship in life. So if I get a gf now , will i be able to carry on the relationship untill marriage? I'm not gonna marry before the age of 26/27. What your experience says? ...

Is it really my fault he fell out of love with me? Where did this come from?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am 37 and have been married for 17 years with a 15 year old daughter. My husband had a breakdown 5 weeks ago and told me he didn't love me. Since then he has been to the doctors, one minute saying he doesn't know what he wants and saying he ...

How often do girls fall for their best male friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have been in love with this girl for a whole year already. I told her that a year ago but she wanted to stay friends. We became the very best friends and I'm the most important person in her life apart from her family. We go out on dates all the ...

My girlfriend's twin seems to have issues with me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hi all, I have been with my gorgeous girlfriend for a few years now, and she has suffered with a disability all of her life which is quite painful, and which I have more than supported her through. But on a recent night out I had a blazing...

He says he loves me. Why isn't he ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - So im still having trouble with *parker* it had been over six months since we spoke and he turned up to where im living now. I avoided him for 3 days i was so worried about seeing him . So i go out and he's there, he grabs me and we start to have a ...

Is this coincidence or fate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with a man I can't be with for various reasons. My mother recently passed away. A couple of days after her death I found a note from her aunt's solicitor who works approx 200 miles from where my mother lives. His name is the same...

I don't feel that he gives me the time of day. Should I take him back anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. Me and my bf have been ‘together’ for almost 3 years. We’ve been through a lot of things breaking up and making up again. The longest we’ve been apart was 2 months. I broke the relationship with him 2 days ago, I was so ...

Is she just playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I need help and i have no idea what i am supposed to do. My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago because i believe we were spending way to much time together and small fights turned to big ones. We dated for 4 years and everything was great up until ...

Should I drop her, wait for her or be her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I met about about 6 weeks ago. We've dated for about 3 weeks and we really seemed to click. We have so much in common it's crazy. We liked the same things etc. Then things came up, we didnt spend much time together, she said ...

Is oral sex as bad as I imagine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - What does oral sex feel and taste like? Previously, I fingered a girl and smelt my finger after and it was horrible so I havnt even tried to use my mouth. Can anyone give me advice on what to do? thanks to everyone that hel...

He treats us well, but why do I feel left out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he has a 7 year old daughter who's the cutest and I also have two children of my own. Why do I feel so left out all the time when he pays more attention to his daughter and everything else around around him? Do not get me ...

How can I become more outgoing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I wanna be more outgoing but i don't know how. I'm really outgoing with some of my friends that I don't go to school with but the group I hang out with makes it feel impossible to be out there and when I try to be people don't seem to like me. What ...

What makes someone a good kisser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hello. What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?...