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Big Questions: Help and advice

I need some help, I am stuck between a rock and a very hard place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - This is complicated so bare with me. When my sister was 13/14 a guy of 18 manipulated her and several girls in her grade at school into several situations. He manipulated them into sending naked and sexually explicit photos to him, as well as ...

My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ...

Should I wait for her to come, or wait for the eventual breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Hey guys, My gf wants to break up with me because she really think that I cant trust her... We are together only 2 months and it took us 3 years so we can be together. We had a fight because of my best friend and so during a year I ignore her com...

I'm 16 and paranoid. Should I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - im 16 and suffering from paranoia which has only recently started, will it get worse? do i need to see a doctor about it? x...

Does she like me or am I just mad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Situation overview University second year Me: 20 years old, never had a relationship her: 20 years old, six months older than me, no idea about past relationships Well me met about 9-10 months ago. We started just meeting every week or e...

How can I help my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - My brother really needs help. Last Sept got his heart destroyed by some girl, and now he's become a complete recluse. Before her, he was a bit of a shut in anyway, but now he won't talk to anyone, my friends tell me that when he's at uni during h...

Can a submissive male maintain a longterm relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I started dating a man who wants me to dominate him. I have read that a male submissive is almost certainly incapable of truly loving a woman. It was said that they would be incapable of longterm relationship, I need to know if this is true. I am ...

Does he want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - How do i know if my boyriend still wants to be with his ex? My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost a year now. I love him with everything i have and he tells me he does too. Im living at his house but theres one problem.. his ex...

I think my boyfriend might be gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I just need to get to the bottom of this. I'm going crazy-I have suspicions about my bfs' sexuality and have for awhile now. I feel so alone. I am just curious if anyone else has had experience with men lying about their sexuality and if there ...

What do coincidences mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Hey there ,I wonder if someone else has this problem... Coincidences are driving me crazy regarding to my relationship. they are so powerful and devastating ,that I almost can't believe it when it happens. I'm married and having and I have some ...

What can I do with a mate who wants to replace my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - i dont really know how to explain this so im just gonna come out with it. me n my mate are really close like brother and sister recently he has split up with his girlfriend n recently he keeps asking for things like blow jobs sex and other things, ...

I lied about being pregnant and wanting to abort...can I fix this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hey i think my relationship has just ended for some shit i have done but it did not happen just like that he he push me to it,hear it goes just at the start of my relationship my boyfriend told me that he had sex with my ex-boyfriend's mother but at ...

I perspire profusely and nothing helps. What do you recommend?

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18 October 2009 (F) - dear agony aunts, please HELP ME! i used to sweat alot on my underarms and hands. I went to the doctors and they perscribed drysol. After only 1 day it completely went away on my underarms but after 5 days of use it STILL didnt go away on my hands. ...

I feel so lonely and ugly because I cant get a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I just need to get my feelings out so if anyones got any advice on how to get through this, or have been in this just leave advice or tips please :( well im going trhough depression, aniexty and low self esteem. ive honestly never felt so u...

The girl I love is my best friends daughter. What do we do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I am 42 yrs old and have been best freidns with my co worker Dan since high school. I was even his best man at his wedding. I was in a long term relationship that ended 10 months ago, Dan was awlways trying to set me up with different people but ...

How can I tell if my feelings towards him are reciprocated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I've just gotten out of a pretty serious relationship where the guy was someone I thought I could possibly change from his overbearing and controlling nature to the sweet guy that I knew was underneath his obnoxious exterior. During said ...

His Wild & Strange Push/Pull Behavior!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Husband's best buddy has been sweet and a teensy bit teasing and flirty with me for over a year - like a very mild crush. Recently we got to be better friends and I let him know that he was someone I enjoyed being friends with. Now sometimes he's ...

Does my teacher fancy me as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - im a boy, 15 yrs. old...i really fancy my male teacher and i don't know why..i think he also likes me as he looking at me when im walking down the corridor, and when i look at him, he smile at me in a shy way then his face turns red. When he's ...

I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program I go 2. Over the 6 weeks there I became really close with. He's so gorgeous and my knees grow weak just thinking about him. He's 20 and a junior in college. I'm 17 and a ...

Do her feelings for me extend to me being a possible boyfriend or longer term partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Firstly, I'm 30 and maybe a little older than the regular users of this site but in my desperation for answers I'm giving this a shot. Heres the story so far.... In March 09 I started a new job, one of my first days was a training inducti...

What to do with a difficult friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I don't have really relationship question, but more friendship. I have quite bad problems with one of my best friends. At least for me these problems are such a bad, that i often loose my confidence for couple of days. Even my confidence is not high ...

Why do I get bored during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year now and at first we couldn't get enough of it and I had a high sex drive but now I am suddenly uninterested in it and I cringe if he even tries to touch me. The last time we had sex it felt ...

Am I not good enough for a proposal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - My bf and I have known each other since we were 12 years old and liked each other since 12 years old but only dated for the last 3 1/2 years. We are both 24 years old. He is turning 25 next Feb and I am turning 25 next May. We have been through ...

Does he mean he still loves me or was the comment past tense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I are separated and we were having an indepth e-mail conversation, so I asked Do you Love me? He replied: I always did... even though I had a terrible way of showing it. Does that mean past tense - he doesn't love me now. ...

I'm having doubts about living with my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hi im kinda a bit confused with this the thing is im not sure if i really want to live with my bf permantly i stayed at his for bout 8 weeks he lives about 5 hours away b4 coming bk home to my parents it was gd and all but now im back home i keep ...