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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - After three years my Ex and I broke up. The reason was because he is an alcoholic and the disease became progressively worse. He sent me a text that stated that he must remain distant from me because every time he thinks of me and how he failed me ...

I've only just realised my feelings for him, am I too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...

I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically ...

Will your first love ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend recently broke up with me during the first two weeks of her three month internship. We are both young and she wants to find herself and do her own things with no strings attached. She wants me to do the same. She doesn't want me ...

When to say I LOVE YOU...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) - I have a question about when to say I love you. I have read that women should never say it first. Fair enough. But what if your guy is always saying things in regular conversation like, "You know I love you babe to do this or that for you." or ...

How can I make a girl fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - hello to everyone well i saw a girl on dating website i really like her,i wrote her couple of messages but she dind't reply me,i wanna make her mine as she is already looking for her prince charming,so plzzzzz i request u help me out if you can,i re...

I don't like my stature...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - i have a low self esteem problem.it's got to do with my height (am short), abt 5ft. i have been a radio presenter for a long time and people love my shows.besides am a good communicator and in journalism school now. i should be happy and proud ...

Can online romance be real?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday ...

What next for someone like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I am a divorcee. My current girlfriend of 10 years standing now seems to have become indifferent to me. I moved to another country to live with her, leaving friends and family back in UK. Now she tells me she would be happier if I left. I feel st...

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (es...

What should I do if something happens between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I feel so weird talking about this. Here's the back story: My ex (we'll call him seymour)and I were best friends. We started dating when I was a senior in high school and he was still a junior. I fell for him and well let's just say it didn't e...

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - how often does man need sex with his gf? i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he...

Have we just grown too far apart and should we call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and a full time student. I work part time at my job and also clean houses for extra cash. I am a very stressful, anal person honestly. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him deeply and things were going very well ...

How often do girls fantasize about their boyfriends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Ok this is a serious question. Im just curious here...... I, being a guy can honestly say I fantisize sexualy about my girl friend every day. I am not a sex pig. I am very considerate and a caring bf. I am just curious.... how often do you girls ...

What motivates Peeping Toms? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I have a peeping Tom. The police can't catch him. I can't sleep at night. What makes him tick? Is it because he wants me to fear him and to have control over me? ...

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form ...

How do I get over my first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hi am 22years i had sex for the first time in march ,but it's like dis i think i like dis guy more than he likes me,he said that he has feelings for me but too me it doesn't show.since we started having sex he had sex with two other women and came ...

My girlfriend hasn't talked to me about getting an abortion. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend is going to the abortion clinic without me she is making all these decision without concerning me what should I do?...

How do I handle inappropriate questions from guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Im 14 and at this age guys are complete pervs..They are always asking you to go down on them or to let them fingure you.,,and it feels so weird because sometimes you like the guy thats asking you but u dont know how to say yes with out sounding all ...

Is my teacher interested?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...

Am I repulsed by men in general? Or is it my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think i'm reaching breaking point, i'm trying to bottle things up but i know soon enough it wont work anymore when ever i get close to guys i get scared. i was abused by a family member from the age of 11 however i repressed memories unt...

How do I pass my algebra?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I have been having trouble in collage level algebra, and i have posted on here about this before i struggle even when i really try thus i studied for 3-4 hours for our last test and still failed, you ask why, because my teacher counted off on many ...

Could this mean I'm pregnant? I have no symptoms.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - my last period was on sept.19 and finished on the 24,had protected sex(condom)2 days after my period ended,2 days after i had sex i started spotting,light bleeding then it turned brown and had it for quiet a while that i even had to use a...

How can I tell if a woman wants to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - how can i tell a women wants to have sex with plz respond hurry....