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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do I feel naked all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

17 October 2009 (?) - i would like to ask why do i feel to be naked all the time. i dont like to wear cloths and even if i wear cloths. i dont wear the bra and panties(in short inner garments)is it okay not wearing bra bcos i heared if we dont the shape of the breast ...

How can I learn to get over my past and trust a new person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I have been searching for answers for sometime and haven't found anywhere to turn to for help. I hope you can offer some advise to a man after a divorce. There are soo many places for women to go but not men. I was married for 9 years with 3 kids. ...

How can you tell if a girl has a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I am a 22 year old student who is at university studying civil engineering. I know I am a bit geeky but I have built my confidence up so that I don't have problems talking to girls. The problem is that whenever I talk to a girl and I think "she see...

Is how my penis looks normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - heyya, i need i bit of advice (obv). it is about my penis... im circumcised and even when my penis is erect my head is covered by my foreskin. i can retract it if i want to but it just slips back over my head straight away. it isn tight and i have ...

Is he making me jealous because I told him I am a virgin...does he still want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - This is my situation: A guy told me he was interested in me on out first date and afterwards we went out on some dates. The guy is very nice to me. He is also shy when he is with me but he is not shy when he talks to other girls. He has difficult to ...

How can I be more confident around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???...

My mother is ruining my relationship...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - ever since i remember, my mother was in charge of everything. i'm also the youngest one, so i know she's trying to protect me and doesnt want me to get hurt. but that's the problem. i'm 20 and i have a boyfriend for three years now. she knows him ...

After 8 yrs and all this I don't know what to do anymore, any help please? I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - ok she broke up with me afew weeks ago and yeah its been hard.we finally stated some what talikng and texting after she wouldnt answer me for awhile before.but i think i went to far we where together for 8 years and i just dont want to let go.i ...

How do I deal with my confusion over feeling for a male teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Ok here is the problem. I left high school months ago and thought that i have moved on from it and evedryone there thta i have encountered. Except for one person i have officially moved on with my life. This guy who worked at my school had issues ...

How do I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - In High School when I was 15 I went out with a girl and we both fell madly in love with each other etc. she was my first and only love. About a year later she broke up with me saying that she thought she wasn't pretty enough or good enough for me ...

Why did the drunken 'you're hot' texts stop now that we're dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - This is probaly gonna sound stupid but... back before summer, this guy liked me, and whenever he went on a night out I would recieve drunk texts and phone calls. They basically said 'Your hot.' or 'I want you.' Ya know usual guy stuff. Now we have ...

Does neck and full on kissing mean more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone and please dont have a moan at me for writing this but im in a very confused mind at the moment, basically i still talk to y ex bf who has a gf, they are not getting on and bascically one day this week we slept together, we have done it ...

I want to know if I'm trying too hard to be a good mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Im a 22 yr old female. I have 1 child. And am married. I want to know if im trying too hard to be a good mother. Im in the type of career that requires me to be away from my family a lot. Example im gone for this year overseas. I really try to give ...

Is she just punishing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I met my girl friend on july 19th 2008, when we met i was seperated for 6 months and i was getting divorced and had no kids. After a month when I realized how much I realy liked her i told her i had to tell her something we met and I told her i had ...

He meets his psycho ex secretly, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my sig other for almost 2 year, but he still keeps in contact with his ex girlfried. I am okay with ex's being friends, bit this person is a bit of a bunny boiler. e.g. she sends "i love you" messages to him via text (she is a ...

Are short women better lovers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Just curious to know why so many men say short women are better lovers than taller women. I read several different forums, and sure enough, it came up over and over again. Problem was, no one elaborated on what made sex better with petite women. ...

Do short women really make better lovers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

Is my teacher crossing the line?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...

Is this my fault for being too weak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My boyfiriend of almost 2 years is for the most part a sweet heart. But When he is upset with me, ne treats me like crap, he blows me off when I apologize or try to make it up to him. He hangs up or yells at me when I ask him what's really bothering ...

Flirting/chatting-how much is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Okay the background. I've been married to my wife for 8 years, we've been together for 10. We also work on the same floor at the same employer. Last few years have been rough- we seem to live in our own separate worlds. I'll admit- some of our a...

Once an abuser, always an abuser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - My ex bf abused me and now he wants me back. He promises hes changed and so on. He says he regrets it and would do anything for me. He admits to be an idiot. He says he loves me- something he never told me when we were in a relationship. He says we ...

Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the...

What is sexual tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 October 2009 (F) - What is sexual tension? Is it a feeling, that you have with someone and cannot stay away from them? I would like to know......