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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are some specific kinds of birth control that make boobs grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - What are some specific kinds of birth control that have made boobs noticably bigger. Me and my best friend want to know. we both have been on birth control for over a year.. and no boob growth.. we need help!!! ...

Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...

How can I be more assertive, to people outside of my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - How can I be assertive to people outside my family. At school people pick with me a lot and I don't do anything because i'll get nervous and scared. With family people I can get mad and assertive fast. I tried to act like the people at school are my ...

Should I beg for a second chance, and hope its all a phase on her part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Im just here to vent. It's prolly obvious that it's over and nothing can be done. I fell in love with this girl years ago... gave her everything I had, planned my future around her, would do anything for her. I looked forward to spending the rest of ...

How can I stop myself being so nervous about everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and i get so nervous about everything. When im at school i get so nervous that somebody will talk about me or hit me or just plan mess with me. See im a quiet person who doesn't say much in some classes because or certain students.In some ...

If you can afford me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Women with healthy self esteem (not narcisissts) - What do you think of the 'You must pay to get with me' attitude of Katy Perry in 'If You Can Afford Me'?...

Since I lost my job my marriage has gone downhill...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I lost my job 10 months ago and since then my marriage has gone down hill. We have been married for 15 years and have 4 kids. We have lost everything we have worked so hard for. We just filed bankruptcy and our home is in the process of ...

How do I get an exit strategy underway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My husband has been burring us financially for years now. I cannot understand him at all. I gave him till Christmas and me and our children (5 and 1) are going to leave. But now I need a plan. I cannot go on with his lies and selfish behavior. ...

Opinions gratefully received. Should we stay together for the sake of the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I met my fiance a few years ago after a divorce. I was working at a tattoo studio and was "making up" for all the fun I missed out on in High School and College (I had "saved" myself for marriage). When we met, it was her intention to hav...

She does not understand why I am upset. Should I be upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - My wife slept with my best friend, no sex, no touching. I was not present. The sleeping accommodation was not the best. First nite she called me and told me he invited her to the bed, there was only one. She was cramped where she slept. She told me ...

Should I get a friend to arrange a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I saw this girl in my friend's birthday party but I could not speak to her, because this guy kept sticking to her all the time. I don't think she likes him more but he was just the guy who kept tracing her! I don't think she likes me or dislikes m...

I wonder where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl in college for about a month now and I've been spending a lot of time with her since we both are in the same program. We've already kissed and stuff and we are very comfortable with each other. My question is when I i...

What can I do about the rumors being spread about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - hi am 15 and i have been having a hard time at school a girl has spreaded a rumor about me, the rumor is that am a lesbain it was ages ago but ever since then everyone has been shouting names at me like lesbo lesbain it really upsets me my mum and ...

I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking ab...

I want to escape, but is it love or fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I wanted to get feedback from the readers. I'm seriously thinking about splitting up with my wife. She and I have problems even though she may not admit she does anything wrong. She claims she is always very patient and loving, obviously her Mo...

Is this the beginning of physical abuse in the relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a fight. It was bad, I would not give up without talking, he wanted to sleep (had a test the next morning) so he ignored me and my tears (I am extremely depressed lately and feel like I have no one to turn to, so there is a ...

To cheat or not to cheat? Can mongamy really exist?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Monogamy - can it REALLY exist - or is it natural to struggle with this? I'm asking this question because it seems like everyone cheats. On a marriage, in a relationship, etc. And if they don't it's usually because they "don't want to hurt" th...

Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine meas...

Should I try to chill will her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. Well school started not that long ago (2 months or so). So she sits two seats away and her friend sits in the middle between us. So I say hi here and there. I ask her how she is. I am always nice. And not to long ago maybe last wee...

Should I go to his party? And if I do, my two dress choices may make me look like I'm dressing to impress!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm going to a formal dress party on friday night, hosted by the guy I like. Things have been eventful lately with us - we got together and then he freaked out a little and said it was all going too fast and we should just be friends, get to know ...

What can I do to get girls interested in me? And when do I go in for the kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - So this may sound like a familiar topic but I am a male who struggles with women. I have struggled my whole life but it seems like women just have absaloute zero interest in me. I can talk to them, I joke with them usually in a sarcastic form (not ...