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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...

My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...

Can you feel it if your soulmate dies without having ever met them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - A very weird question I know but my friend has recently been telling me that she has these really bad aches as though she has lost someone in her life, which she hasn't, and she says it feels like she can never love anyone again but she doesn't know ...

I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she w...

I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...

My abusive girlfriend broke up with me and I can't forget about her. How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I was in a relationship for over a year. At the ending she was very abusive to me , and it didnt feel good anymore, but when she broke up i was devestated. Now, 3 months later, i still cant forget about her. I think about her eve...

Is he backing off from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - hi ive been together with my boyfriend for one and half years, we were good together, but for the last four months or so i do not feel as though we are the same. we would text each other at least ten times per day, and he would ring me when he ...

I made love with my friend in a moment of weakness. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for a year and a half. we always get in yelling fights and everything but at the end of the day its all better, but when we were in a fight i went to my friends thats a guy and he made me feel ...

I'm 17 and Confused about the relationship between me and a very good friend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Right, Hello um...where do i begin... i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach...

I'm pregnant but my husband wants me to abort the baby!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I am 38,my husband 46, we both has a daughter from previous marriage, 15 and 13. Now I am pregnant, but my husband does not want the baby. He wants me to do abortion. what I should do? He even wants to divorce! Help!...

Did I experience an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I just wanted 2 ask a kind stupid question, but oh well...well basically it first happened when my bf was rubbing me over my trousers, i got this amazing feeling which made my whole body get hot and it makes me feel so tight kind of ...

What does an escort do in bed? My fiance uses their services.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I found out my fiance using escort many many times. He said the sex with them is simple. No pussy licking. Just doggy style and bj. Is this true? what exactly does really escort do in bed? ...

How do I tell him I lied about my dad dying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I’m in a real dilemma. I met this guy about 4 years ago. He thought he met the love of his life. Me, I was just coasting. I’d just been dumped from a long term relationship (six years). My head was all over the place. He always bent over backwards ...

How do I make it obvious that I'm interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Me and my friends were at the mall the other day, and they bought me this purple and fluffy tiara to wear. They dared me to go up to this cute guy that and ask him to greet me. And I did. I just like ran up to him and his friend and asked if ...

Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - ok i liked this boy and he liked me and we were flirting now we sit in diffrent seats in class and we cant really talk that much anymore but we still talk though my friend says he look at me and i know he does how do i tell if he likes me. does he ...

I am in the perfect relationship. Why do I feel so needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I am in the perfect relationship, we have perfect chemistry.I just don't know why I have these overwhelming feelings of need towards him... He does everything right by me, he is faithful, he is loyal, he is loving, encouraging and supportive. When...

How do you ease the pain of heartbreak you brought on yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - simple question haha what can u do to ease the pain of a heartbreak that you brought upon yourself? what i mean is i treated my ex like crap and he broke up with me because of it. i had plenty of opportunities to stop, but i didnt, and just ...

Is this a sign of possessiveness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been out with this guy about 10 times. However, I wouldn't consider us to be "in a relationship" yet. Well, I just recently got out of a physically mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, so I'm really sensitive about things. Wh...

At what age can a girl get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - at what age a girl can get pregnant?...