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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Do I have a really low sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - sruthi.. I am very much worried that I am not able to enjoy sex, as some feeling is holding me back.. I never felt in that peak stage of mood. He is saying that he is not sensing any interest from me, and he wants me to initiate and show more in...

I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

13 October 2009 (M - basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...

Hand fetish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - hey, so guys have anyone heard of hand fetish before? well, i did not :S but the thing is that i really feel i am so, i always tend to kiss my husband's hands.. and every time i see some girl kisses a man hands i get those butterflies on m...

Am I wrong for wanting her to stop being friends with people she made out with in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (M - My fiancee had a very wild, promiscuous past, with guys and girls. I have dealt with that and moved on, enjoying the present. However, it recently came up that she had been with one of the girls who is still her friend today. I told her it made me ...

Does he have any intentions of making a life with me or am I just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - So let me start off with a little history. I met this guy right out of high school, we had this connection that was so strong its unexplainable and we hadnt even had sex, After about three months he got into some trouble and ended up in jail, I kept ...

I don't know if I can do everything he has asked of me but I love him so much! How can I get the old him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - Hi everybody. Please help me, I don't know how to decited now. I have date with him for 2 years and we just broke up for stupid reason.(he don't spend time with me). So, i got mad and i left him. He cried first day (i know because he call me) After ...

I'm questioning whether I should marry him because he clearly does not want to have this baby with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - I am 4 months pregnant and due to marry my fiance in December. I am in my middle 40's and really wanted another child but thought it wouldn't happen at my age but it did. My partner told me that his child rearing days are over and that he never ...

What can I do to make myself happy? It just seems impossible!

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13 October 2009 (F - I'm so confused about my life right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend who i found out was sending text messages to my best friend they apparently never did anything together but my trust in the male gender has been destroyed! I hate my job ...

Am I gay (honest opinions only)?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

13 October 2009 (M - i'm a 27 year old and have been thinking bout men since i was 17. it started as a little bit here and there like one day think about men the next i think about women. i had a sense of guilt when i masturbate thinking bout men when i blow. at the age ...

How do I get happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

13 October 2009 (F - my problem is simple: i'm miserable. i'm a junior in college and stressed out with school. i also don't have a lot of friends neither in school nor out of school. i also commute so its hard to join clubs or anything else that might get me soc...

How can I match her homecoming outfit?

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13 October 2009 (M - My date to homecoming has a completely white was, 100%. So what color do I make everything, like my tie/wrist flower thing....

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