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Midnight horrors and deep thinking takes me away to another place! Am I sane or insane is the question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I get strange dreams every night. Always about the super natural. Most of the time very disturbing thing such as mini heads, impaled bodys, flickering lights, dark figures and canniablism. Somtimes it even gets to the pint where there are three ...

In a student/teacher fantasy, what role does the man prefer to play?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - this is going to seem really random, but i need to ask: in student/ teacher fantasies, do most men prefer being the student or the teacher? i ask this because it seems to me that most women i come across prefer to be the student, so i assumed that ...

Is there such thing as post wedding blues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - Is there such a thing a post wedding blues? I got married three weeks ago to an amazing woman but now I can't help feeling that I have made a terrible mistake. Shes amazing, everything I've ever wanted. There's never been any problems between us. ...

Is this just OCD or am I Paranoid as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - hey i have got really paranoid lately well ive got ocd and i have images of myself and loved ones getting hurt, say i think of my boyfriends face on fire i wont let him near fire anymore because of my images but i also I think someone is in th...

I just want to know the truth, am I fat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - umm.... wel i've always been really consious bout the way i look and my weight. and now it's just worse than eva because i just read this article about this model that got fired because she was to big and she was a size 8 (british size) t...

Is it possible to build a future together when we have conflicting goals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, I am new to this site but I registered as I have a major issue and I do not know who else to turn to - I don't feel that I can discuss it with any of my family or friends as I live in a close-knit community and I do not think I can ...

Does anyone have tips on how to boost my confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Helloo there. I have a really big problem well..i think it is anyway.. I have 2 problems that are abit annoying me atm.. okay so the first one is..I CANT stop going red..its so annoying..its like some1 has slapped my face like a 100 times..i go r...

Fatten and Feed, Diet and Humiliate. Where can I find a woman like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - Hi all well i have a bit of a fetish/fantacy but find it difficult to meet women as it is a little unusual, Well hear goes, i'm fat very fat and would like to meet a female that would help me get fatter but humiliate at the same time, for exampl...

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year b...

Should I pursue him or is he a waste of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - am aged 20 years now at university in Uganda in my second year remaining with a year to complete ma course. i ve been in love with this "man" since 2006 thus making it to 3 years now. He loves n and cares about me dat i dont luck if i tel him wat i ...

Do men in long term relationships lose interest in sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Is it normal for men when they are in long term relationships not to want sex anymore? I used to think it wasn't normal but now I am not so sure. My boyfriend (36 yrs old) and I's sex life is non-existent. We had sex for the one and only time in ...

Does my step-brother like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - My stepbrother is always touching my butt and asking me for sexual favors does he like mi?And i think he is sending mi mixed messages and its creeping mi out!!!! I need answers....

Broken Heart, Broken Brain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am 27. My husband and I started dating when I was 20. I loved him very much and he was my very best friend. He passed away a little over a month ago at age 28. He was very sick. I waited on him hand and foot and did everything to try to make him ...

Is it crazy for me to get involved with a younger man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I'm a 45 year old divorced mother of two and find myself being courted by a 32 year old man. Is it crazy for me to get involved in a relationship with him? He is the nicest person I've ever known and I am attracted to him. My concern is that aft...

Should I be the first to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am a 29-year-old woman who is intensely attracted to a guy at work. He is 23. We enjoy chatting with each other and flirt quite a bit intellectually. He does little things for me like buying catnip for my cats and insisting I try food from his...

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...

Can I get pregnant from sex during my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I had my period on the 3rd of october, and it might sound weird to others but we had sex that day and he came in me, same with the day after and the day after that. my period last bout 7 days. and i was wondering if that could get me pregnant? its ...

Do casual relationships ever turn into anything more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Has anyone ever had a casual dating relationship (seeing each other casually like maybe for a year) before turning into a real, committed relationship? Or have casual things always ended up as nothing more than that?...

Should I have sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]...

What if I refuse to divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - here is a dumb question. I still love my wife and i know she still loves me but she has alot of pride. I want to save our marige but i dont know how. Ive tried convincing her to go to counsling with me but she refuses. What would happen if i ...

What is the smell that's coming from my private area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - please help!!!! i have a problem with a smell that is coming from my private area. it seems to be coming from the hair cuz at times ther is a white substance coating the hair and it stinks. i have tried differant soaps and altho some seem to help ...

Do guys think virgins are a total turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - ok, so do guys think virgins are a total turn off? im asking this because i am one and every guy i end up telling this to gets really uncomfortable even though they are the ones that asked. and then of course they run when i tell them i dont believe ...

What do my horrible, recurring nightmares mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - i keep having reoccuring horrific nitemares. it`s so realstic. i prepare for bed and once i fall asleep in my dream a figure enters my room in the dark pins me down then rapes me. i scream and it feels so real. when i wake up it`s in fright. what ...

What would be a meaningful congratulations present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - My friend will be defending his PhD in 2 weeks time. He is 31 years old, and we have a past relationship. I would like to get a meaningful present for him as a congratulations for when he passes. I'm not sure what I should get him; what would ...

Is it possible for Mr./Mrs. Right to not be into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Quick question. Do you think that the person who you love and who doesn't love you back is simply not right for you? Or is it possible to know Mr. or Mrs. Right, the only issue is that he or she is just not that into you? Thanks....