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30-35,
*rana
writes:A little over a month ago I started working at a new job. I was familiar with 2 - 3 of the managers because I had friends who worked at the same place, but I didn't know them by name and wasn't friends with them.When I started working one of the managers I kinda knew we started getting closer. Rides home, jokes, and just talking. But lately things have become a lot closer, he bumps into be often, touched my hair and told me it was pretty down, randomly glided/ghosted his hand down my back. He's also (because he things its funny ... which it is) tries to start off the wall rumors about us. (which seems to upset my ex that works with him)Any way he offered in a joking way that he wanted to sleep with me, then later that evening I had said how men forgot that they where married some times (ive slept with a man who we had been seeing each other, had sex ... and his wife called) and thats what I was talking about when I had commented in on what someone else had said. But he said "I'm not married, we wouldn't have that problem."... Which leads to the twist, he has a fiancée for life, they've been together at least 6 yrs. and have a 5 yrs. old together, I think his wife is wonderful and he made it a point that we met and became friends. And was very excited when I said I liked her, so now when she comes by work he lets me on dinner break to eat with his family.He seems very open, and im into bdsm and have considered for a long time looking for someone to share that with and even thought about going into a poly household. Could this be a dream come true and I've found a couple to enter into a relationship?... or is he just interested in canoodling and being friends with benefits. (also im not bothered that he's in a relationship, and im not sure how to take that)
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reader, Prana +, writes (24 October 2009):
Prana is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm not sure I know how to broach the subject with him, but we are alone together when we give each other rides. We get off work around 1 in the morning... and being in a little town, not much more then the 24 hr Ingels is open where we could go talk.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2009):
He's going to use you and that's it. Don't get involved in this mess, you will get really hurt and feel awful about yourself.
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