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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What is true beauty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - What do you think true beauty means? Someone said I had it but wouldn't explain what they meant. So what do you think that means?...

My boyfriend has this theory that because he works longer hours and makes more money, he shouldn't have to lift a finger at home?!?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Is this normal? Am I crazy? OK so I have been with my man for almost 4 years now. Right now I am between jobs so I pick up most of the slack with the housework. Here's my problem. When I am working full time I am also responsible for ...

Why do kids like me so much? What makes them like one person over another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - kids and espercially female from about 7 to 12 do find my company loving and will like me me to be with them all the time.when ever i visited a family only for a first time with their little female kid at home they'll like me to stay with them and ...

He regrets knowing me...so how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Thank you for previous replies to my posts http://www.dearcupid.org/question/follow-up-on-emigrating-to-oz-while-my.html and wanted to update that today my boyfriend basically gave me an ultimatum that it was not acceptable for me to come and go out ...

Which would be the best opportunity for my career?

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6 October 2009 (F) - Hi, i'd like some advice on this please.I have been offered two Au Pair jobs in Spain, and i'm not sure which one to take. I'll tell you about both, and see what you think. One is in Pontevedra in Northern Spain. I have seen photos of the fa...

I need motivation, and he just doesn't seem enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Well here goes.... I'm a bit confused... When i was about 6 years younger i want a good life, a life were i could look after myself and be me, be rich before 20 and know what i want. Then things changed, i met a guy that messed me around, i then was ...

Why would he want me to abort his baby if he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to have an abortion because we are still young, and his mother does not approve of a girl who is not married to have a second child. I am confused whether he loves me or not, why does he want me to do abortion?...

I want to plan our future but he thinks I'm thinking too far ahead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I go to seperate colleges and he plays baseball. We have been together for 3 years and were planning on getting married the summer after graduation. Everytime I bring something up that I'm concerned about I.e. Money or something ...

For the twins out there: How does it feel to have such a close relationship that you cant be seperated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - this question is for twins or anyone that is a twin, im just curious how it feels to have another with the same appearance and if you and him/her have a close friendship so much that you cant be separated? do you always want to know where he/she is ...

What does having a casual relationship mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night an...

Big questions about life and guys......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been put together into one post] Question 1: How do I get over a guy whose made fun of me many times to my face and behind my back to his friends that can become very agressive in the littlest...

After being in an abusive relationship I'm scared that maybe all guys are like that and I deserve that kind of relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I am 16 and I was recently involved in an abusive relationship with a guy a year younger than I am. I normally don't date younger do to their immaturity level because however I am on a higher level then most my age. Everything was perfect ...

Should I confront my 'friend'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - If you have found a guy you have been involved with has been sending text messages to one of your close girl friends and the friend has not mentioned this inappropriate behavior to you, what should you do? I definitely feel I should confront both ...

Is this 'relationship' worth pursuing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys! I've recently met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We went out for a drink a few days after meeting, and he told me he didn't want any kind of serious relationship and just wanted a bit of fun. I've been having relationship problems myself l...

How can I end this cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'd been seeing this guy i work with for about 2 months when he decided to go back to his ex. We weren’t sleeping together because i don’t believe in it, and this was an issue for him. We’re different in our backgrounds-reli...

My boyfriend is turning 21 soon, and I'm stressing out here! How can I make it super special for him?

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6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is turning 21 in a month's time and I'm stressing out here. The issue is, I want to make this day super special for him. I have a lot of things planned for the day...now I don't know what to get him. I know dat some would ...

I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ...