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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:ive been talking to a guy who claims he likes me and would like to get to know me better and possibly be my bf.every time we talk hes all going on about his ex girl friend.. he said he compares every girl to her and that she works in an expansive shop, shes mixed race really pretty blah blah blah.he even asked when the last time i kissed a guy and if i was a virgin.. i told him alot of guys like me aswell and he asked if he should be worried..whats that all about?advice please?? cos i seem to attract jerks all the time:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Sounds like an immature jerk. Why is he going on about his ex? Sounds like he's trying to brag. Well guess what, that pretty ex of his and him are done. So they clearly werent that perfect. You should tell him that and tell him to get over her, and get over himself too. Who's he trying to impress? Definitely wont help me get a new girl...He doesnt sound like he actually likes you. More like he's looking for another pretty accessory.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 October 2009):
Well no way go out with this guy anymore. He's insecure, controlling and still loves his ex. What business of his is it whether you are a virgin or not, and why would he compare you to him. You're completely different! Ditch him, he's not worthy of you at all. As for attracting jerks, you need to look at your own confidence and happiness. Good guys are attracted to girls who are confident, have aims and can stand up for themselves. Take it nice and slow, get to know the guys and just keep working through all the rubbish guys until you find a good one who's worthy. Good luck.
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