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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Religion in relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) - Why do very religious people having problems in their relationships due to their own beliefs turn to Agony Aunts for help? ...

Is there a better way to get love and loyalty from people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Im the kind of person who doesnt give up on relationships easily, be it romantic or just friendships. Trouble is it means I often get treated a lot worse than i should. I have a guy friend at the moment and he is a real fairweather friend. I know a ...

Am I not leaving my marriage due to fear and stability?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I feel everyday, almost obsessively, that I want to leave my husband, after 25 years of marriage. But I have serious doubts to really do that. He is not fulfilling me emotionally at all. But I almost blame myself for...

Marital woes in paradise. Can anyone advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I recently married a woman that i have been in love with from the moment i first saw her 8 years ago. there was a period of 5 years where she was with someone who really abuse her mentally physically emontionally and sexually and they have a son. ...

How would you tell if a guy thinks you look good without him saying anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Today I was walking to the bus and my best friend Rob was sitting there as always waiting to talk to me. I sat down across from him and he started talking to me. Today was different though he kept playing with his hair and he always faces my way. ...

The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I w...

What should I do with this new fear that stems from my dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - The dream starts out with my crush/friend, R, playing Sorry with a friend in shop. Then I and his cousin /my best friend, Grace, started playing for him and the girl while they do work. He comes over and sits next to me, my crush. We were playing, ...

I'm ready to go to second base. How do I get him into action?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I want to go to second (feeling up) with my boyfriend but he always acts sexually awkward. He is really nice and I really like him and I can tell he likes me. I just feel like I am more sexually mature than he is and I don't know what to do. ...

Should I continue and see where things go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a concert and we instantly connected. He asked for my number and called me the next day.. we talked for hours each day and when we weren't talking we were texting. We just really got to know each other and it seemed like we had a ...

I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?...

What can I do to overcome my time constaints and pass my math class?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Well this isn't really a relationship question but you guys tend to answer questions well better then yahoo most the time so im going to ask anyways. I am current enrolled in collage and i am taking an algebra class, i have no problems doing h...

2 people have asked me now if I really like him...why doesn't he ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi Basically there's this guy that I see every Wednesday and Thursdays I haven't spoken to him yet because all his friends keep running up to me and asking me I set you up with Scott etc...And yeah he likes you blah blah...I don't know if they are...

What could she be talking about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - A friend (female) of mine is being very cryptic... my boyfriend and I spent time with she and her husband a few months ago, had a wonderful time and have not seen them since. She (friend) was extremely intoxicated and was licking my boyfr...

I'm just not sure about this...?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend is 18, I'm 15 we have been talking about having sex but we are extremely worried about the laws, my mom is ok with it so really we wouldn't get intto trouble but we want to be as safe as possible. I have looked up missouri laws ...

How can I spend time with her in my own home before I leave for active duty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old and enlisted in the United States Airforce. I have a girlfriend well ex now girlfriend who is 16 years old. I have been dating her since i was 14 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. My first true love and basically only ...

I'm supposed to get married next month but I am in love with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Adnan from Pakistan, 30 year old man next month i will get marry, but im not intersting in marriage because, i already engaged in married women she live in Canada, nationlity of Indian she love her family ( brother, sister, mother, father and ...

Is holding out on sex normal when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I've been dating to meet the right guy. I don't put out until I know its right and we have the discussion to be exclusive. It seems after about 4 dates the guy doesn't call. What is the standard of putting out dating these days (I've been out of ...

Dating 1 girl but still love another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Please Help Me :( Okay, Im dating this girl but i still have strong feelings for my ex which happens to be my best friend (yes, i have a best friend that is a girl. who doesnt?) I got expelled from my school so i dont get see them that much. ...

I don't want this feeling anymore!

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21 October 2009 (M) - so there is this girl who at the moment i am crazy for. the thing is i'm pretty sure she doesnt like me. it all started a few months ago. we had always been friends but lately she started talking to me a lot and always wanting to hang out. i just ...

I want to lose my viriginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - So, I'm 17 and my friends around me are losing their virginity.. This one kid can hook me up with other virgin.. yada yada yada.. so i want to lose my virginity.. but i dont know how to approach this.. I'm really shy and slightly overweight, with no ...

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its ...

Women seem to dislike nice guys!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I asked this girl out i have like for a long time a month or so ago and she said no and said she didn't like me like that, and that we had been friends for to long and thought it may end up kind of awkward. Well she could tell it sort of aggravated, ...

Whats the trick to coming across as confident in writing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Writing and speaking with a girl you've just initiated contact with can have different effects. When you write her (online dating), she has preconceived ideas about what most guys are like. So if you write 'You are beautiful' that can come off as ...

I'm aroused 75% of the time, and my girlfriend is getting irritated...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I have this problem that is beginning to irritate my fiancee. It seems like I am aroused 75% of the time Im around her. I was never aroused that often around women in past relationships. I cant explain it. I just really love her, and she turns me on ...

Will a controlling person know when they have lost control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - If you leave someone who controlled you for many years and now they cant even contact you or know where you live, will they know now that they have lost control of you? I feel so much better knowing that person doesnt even know where i am....

What should I do if I've been turned down 10 times by girls in 3 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - What should i do if i've been turned down 10 times by tons of girls, in 3 months? I'm nice to them, and it seems like they always say either: No, I'm taken, or I'm not looking for a boyfriend at the momnt....