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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Will a DWI prevent me from having a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I've got a bit of a problem. Over the weekend I was arrested for a DWI and had my car impounded, and I probably won't be driving for about a year. I am single and really worried that this is going to prevent me from finding a girlfriend. There are a ...

When will this explode?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - My wife is actively searching for a new exciting relationship with men, so she said to me. She denies looking for sex or having ever cheated in the past. I honestly believe she has not cheated. She is a sexy young women who attracts alot of ...

What do girls look for in a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. ...

I'm tired of being the sweet, pretty lady. Can you help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Please help.im breaking down slowly inside.this whole year has been totally rough for me.my love life is just pathetic.im a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart and great sense of humor.im giving but all i receive is heartache.ive been broken so ...

Should I convert to Christianity for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi dear cupid. I need help again. I broke up with my boyfriend for one week but now we get back together again.(we're long distantance) We broke up, because of his family. And I told him if he stop listen to his family and move on with me (just me ...

Moral beliefs on fantasies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other th...

He says he likes me but won't take me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I don't know if I want to change or should I say I'm not sure how to. I am in my late twenties and have no friends, except this one girl who obviously wants to be my friend but everytime we go out I justthink I would rather be at home watching TV...

How do I show him my love without being overbearing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My bf is in the srmy and he has been army an has been over seas for the last 6 months. We have been aprt when he did training and such but this is his first time over seas, He will be coming home in 6 days (I can hardly wait). but at the same time ...

I feel as though I've lost my morals...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I hate who i am becoming and i can't stop myself. I used to be the classy girl with a lot of respect for herself, but in a month and a little it has changed. I lost my virginity three years ago now and in the space of three years i had only slept wi...

Why marriage?...in fact...why love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Reading through pages and pages of questions on dating, love and marriage i just see the huge amount relating to affairs (both mentally and physically), being in love with someone whilst married (perhaps even with children), obsessing over a married ...

I want to sleep with my girl friend...how can I convince my husband to share?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 14 years to a wonderful man that I am very much in love with. However after I got married I realized that I was bisexual. About ten years ago I had a girlfriend that he knew about and I loved her very much. At that time he ...

Could he have recorded me on skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I am wondering whether anyone knows whether when on Skype the other person viewing a video recording can record you to look at later on etc. I met a guy on Oasis at the beginning of this year who has been harassing me for the last week to get on S...

Married and falling for a married coworker...can I sleep with him to get him out of my system?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 33 and hapily married, with one child. I love my husband very much; he is a wonderful man. I have started a new job at the beginning of the year where I met this man. He is 39 and also married. His wife works at the same place. A ...

She doesn't remember what she did when drunk - or does she?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I moved into a new flat a few months with two girls who were friends of my friend. i got a crush on one of the girls and then a month ago me, her and one of our friends got drunk and kissed her and touched her boobs but we couldn't do much. ...

I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm severely depressed. I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else. My whole routine has completely changed I rarely go out I simply stay in my apartment all day, I've tried to go out once or twice but ...

Is it heathy for us to get bakc together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Here's my situation....broke up with my ex over 5 years ago. I've dated a lot since then, but nothing even remotely serious. We've been hanging out again for a few months...I'm almost 30 and I realize that if I get involved now...it means long term ...

I want to have longer conversations with him. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really like this boy in one of my classes. (I'm a junior in high school.) He is very funny, very very attractive, and not to mention - NICE! He's got it all. We ever share a few common interests. We've had casual conversations before, never ...

Is it possible to fall back in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall back in love again, when fallen out of love whatever the circumstances? is there any hope at all? i would really appreciate the advice, or and comments, thanks....

How do I get over a cheater and end it for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - To make a long story short, my boyfriend of 4 years is a habitual cheater. I have kicked him out of our home after discovering another affair, but I still find myself thinking of him and wanting to work things out. We remain in contact via phone ...

My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may ...

Why can't I be happy and content with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Here's my main question: **Why can't I be happy and content with my life as it is, and not wonder about the possibility of things working out with my ex from so long ago?** I had a relationship that lasted for about 3 years...over four years ...

What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi. Not a relationship question, but just wondering what my options are. When I started college I was a bright, motivated young woman. I wanted to learn. I wanted to do things. Now I have trouble getting myself to do things sometimes. I just feel ...

I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me... Of course, I like him which is why I can't work out what's going on! We've been hanging out together and going on dates for months now and he still doesn't seem to want things to get more ...

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was ...