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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What can I do to get over this? Am I completely nuts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I've got this problem. I just got out of a very abusive six year relationship a few months ago, and there's all this court stuff to deal with. I came to terms with it, and was doing fine. Feeling much better, even relieved because the burd...

My husband is always cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am an indian woman whois very sincere to her husband and family. We got married 30 years ago after 7 years of love with each other inspite of my parents unwiilingness they maaried us. My husband had cheated me earlier also many a times. and i was ...

I'm confused and scared what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I'm 18 in college and I maybe pregnant and if my college finds out I can be kicked out and if my mom and family find out I might not have anywhere to live and I'm so scared because part of me wants to keep it and the other part says no. I'm confused ...

I do not want to leave without him because long distance relationships don't work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, and living together for 3 of them. We have had many ups and downs. He has finished college and we have been talking about moving so that I may finish as well, we were talking about moving in ...

I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by ...

How can I stop masterbating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (?) - I plessure my self sometimes but I feel VERY VERY shameful after i'm done. What can I do?? I've tried to stop doing it but its hard not to since I havent had sex for a while. Any advice?? Thanks....

I'm worried about my pending boob job.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Please help! Im having a boob job done and worried that it will go wrong!Im so scared...

I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...

Need good remedies and/or painkillers advice for menstruation!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey, this isn't really a relationship problem but I know all the aunts have great advice. The thing is, next week I'm off do do work experience for the whole week during my half term, but I'm due on my period either Sunday/Monday. Like many girls I ...

I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...

She's given up money and material things for love, to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Just looking for some input from women or men, anyone who has been with a lot of money and passed it by for true love. My fiance has dated several very wealthy OLDER men, and I mean very wealthy and I mean very older, like 30 years older. But...

I started wondering what else is out there. Is there something better? Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - So I am lost and confused. I am 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with my current bf for almost 9 years now. I have never questioned our relationship before, but recently I couldn't help but wonder what else is out there, is there ...

He thinks giving me a home and living comfortably should satisfy me enough and that my life isn't that hard.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I don't understand my boyfriend. Im not even sure I can handle his lifestyle anymore. He works away and when he comes home he drinks not heavily but over a long period. Spends alot of money and is out late. In the 4-5 days he is home he could drink ...

How do I deal with the trauma of having an abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - On August 26th I had an Abortion. I am only fifteen years old, and the guy I was with, is only sixteen. We are broken up now. I had an Abortion for numerous reasons. The fact that I could never be able to support it fiancially, and my ex boyfri...

Venus vs Mars

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - y do girls who have a bad past get called a slut and a guy called a player? and y when a girl is known for sleepin around and finds a good guy he is told to hang on to her no matter her past...but when a guy has a past of cheatin girls are normally ...

How can I convince her I am different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - How do I make her understand I really Love her?? She's been with her bf for 4 years now. But she wants to break with him because he had broke her trust on him so many times and hurt her emotionally. Her bf would'nt allow her to break up with hi...

What kind of flowers and stuff for homecoming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - I need help, again. I need ideas on what color and wat kind of flowers to get for the corsage for homecoming. She is wearing a purple dress(like a normal purple, like the kind markers are) And also, what does the guy wear ? A cordage tooo or what is ...

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

Nothing I do is good enough!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...

I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...

Do you think I made the wrong decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so, I've been seeing this guy for about a year now and my bestfriend doesn't like him. At all! He didn't really do anything to her all he did was agreed that she was a slut but the boy who actually called her a slut she still likes? I really like ...

My best friend has a history of cheating and is now attracted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - One of my best male friends is currently in a long-distance relationship, and has been for about two months now. He has a history of infidelity but he insists that this time around, he has changed for good and will remain faithful. I tend to ...

Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I need your advice. Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I have had it. We have been in the same holding pattern for the last three to four years not moving forward not moving backward only ...

I feel responsible for my cousin becoming a whore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Ok when I was 9 years old I had sex with my cousin... twice. It was her idea to do it but I was curious so of course I didn't say no. I think she was 8 at the time. Of course being 9 It's not like it made me feel good or anything, I didn't get a ...

He is deeply spiritual and senses spirits around him. Should I stay away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hello Advice please asap Ive met a great guy online and plan to meet me him on Sunday. He is deeply deeply spiritual, says he feels things, knows things, senses spirits and that he feels them around him all the the time.... His mother was...