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writes:Thank you in advance to all the great agony aunts who take the time to answer this. I did write in last week about a difficult situation where I am working on a committee with an ex who is being alternately rude and disrespectful. The work I am doing is important as much as the situation is stressful, I did not want to quit. I took the advice of many of the aunts and have stayed the course of the committee. I am walking in a confident manner and showing all that I am and all I can do. My ex is continuing to attempt to do things...very subtly to sabatoge me but I am just responding by being all I can and ignoring him. On the inside it hurts when he will not say hi when I walk in the door or makes little digs but there are other man there who support me...being this is a political thing it is mostly men so I do want to give up. I suspect that if I ignore him he will stop the nonsense but in a nutshell...what do I do if he does not? He does not dislike me but he is seeing a far more empowered and strong woman than he knew before and I am unwilling to accept his past behavior to me. He is generally charming to anything in a skirt but he is not charming to me.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 September 2008):
 Stay the course woman ! Show strength. Excel at the work. For one, I am cheering you.
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