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anonymous
writes:i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much.i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is the only guy i have met who understands my person. pls advice me on what to do before i go mad with envy Reply to this Question
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reader, SaintlySal  +, writes (30 September 2008):
Hello,
your email answers your question as the man concerned is "happily married", you know he loves his wife and you feel hurt whenever he speaks about his wife.
With due respect, you are worthy of a respectful partnership.
Please, please, makes yourself unavailable to this man. START SAYING:"NO!" to someone who is disrespectful, to you, his wife and the institute of marraige.
Focus on rebuilding your self esteem and value system. You are worth it. Initially, your journey may appear to be fraught with fragility. However, slowly slowly the loving and loveable butterfly that you are will emerge. Believe it! All the best
Take care
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reader, katherinep2 +, writes (29 September 2008):
hi, you might feel like your in love with this man but the truth is babe it will never work you can find a nice man with no commitments, this man has a wife and he has kids you might feel hurt but imagine what it would do to them. i dont feel you are at fault but i feel this man is he has got a family and he shouldnt expect you to be feeling like this so if i was you i would hold my head up high move on, it may be hard at first but go find someone who has the time for you to make you feel special and not just some bit on the side you and your body are worth more respect !
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008): Get the hell out of that relationship. You are far too young to be caught up in heavy stuff like that. The chances are,he will never leave his wife and could you live with yourself if he did? Even if he did leave her for you,you'd spend your time worrying he'll do the same to you. Dont be part of breaking up a family and have fun with guys your own age instead. Forget this guy!x
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