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How can I get him to be with me and just me?

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Question - (28 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *razy4love33 writes:

Ok, I just started my new job a few months ago and have had the biggest crush on my boss, to my surprise one day he text me and asked if we could hang out..so we did and ever since then we have been messing around. Well the downside to this is..he is married and has two kids. At time I feel bad for doing this but I am falling in love with him and I don't know what to do...I want to be with him more than anything. He never tlks about his wife but he talks about his kids. I don't know what's going on in his head, as in why he would cheat on his wife but as bad as this sounds I don't even care because I like him so much...I don't know what to do. So my question is how can I get him to be with me and just me

[moderator note: this was added from an additional question by the same poster]

What are the chances that a married man will leave his wife for a girl he is cheating on his wife with?...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008):

The chances of a man with children leaving his wife for a young girl he is messing around with at work is very, very low.. You've got more chance of becoming a millionaire next week than him leaving her for you. He's using you and your letting him. Learn to have more self-respect for yourself. Are you always this easy, men call and you go running.. Leave that bloody married man alone. Go and find yourself somebody who is free to love you properly.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 October 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntAge 10-12? Can you provide us with a further update? You have the romantic notions of a 10-12 year old, but I am assuming that if you are sleeping with a married man, you probably can spell adultery...

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