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writes:Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.I'm trying desperately hard to give them up, but it's really difficult. I don't do any clubs because I'm not sporty and I failed drama.I want those feelings of love so bad, I cry at night. How can I pick up a boyf? Reply to this Question
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reader, dj_jam5 +, writes (29 September 2008):
ok im no expert but i feel like ive been in the same situation..can i say one thing without bieng rude?your 14?by the time you reach my age(very young in the scheme of things 22)i will put down every penny i have in my life to you have experienced "true love" or whatever that is by my age.DONT rush...your underage to have sex which i sincerley believe is a major factor contributing toward really strong LOVE feelings.trust me what you think your friends think they are experiencing right now is NOT love and by the time they and you reach my age they will not be able to remember whatever they were experiencing.however this will probably not answer your question...to be honest your probably a beutiful young girl just experiencing all the teen agonies we all did.it will all turn out ok you just need to stop bieng so hard on yourself.and to be honest the prettiest girls all end up pregnant and unfufilled wheras youll be succesful and elligibal...stop stessing...
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 Hey there, I know how hard it can be when all your friends have someone and you don't (I'm in the same situation). But try not to worry too much about it, you're still really young. The thing is, your friends' boyfriends are most likely aesthetic things, just so they can say they have a bf (to be cool or whatever). But please don't "just get a bf," find someone who you love and who'll love you back. If you just get anybody just to prove a point, then it's most likely going to end badly. Besides, I'm sure your friends will be way more jealous if they see you with someone you're in love with than if you're with "just some guy." Enjoy life, do what you love, and you will eventually meet that special someone. And when you do, you'll thank yourself for not just picking up some joe.
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