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writes:Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was -"I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, but now I'm not sure if he did. And I wasn't under any drug/alcohol related influence."From that, 2 weeks after to be honest, I get these symptoms;- Period like pains- Stomach cramping- Lower back cramping- Nausea- Muscles growing hard in my lower stomach- Food cravings- Eating a lot more/getting hungrier easier- Misty urine- A lot more discharge but it's white, not see-through like usual- Gums bleeding a lot- Mood swings (a lot of crying and stressing at people)- Bad headaches more (I suffer from migraines, but getting them a lot more frequent)- Legs turning to practical stone when walking up 13 stairs- Hard doing sit-ups/stomach work- Dizziness (nearly fainting in closed in areas and I'm not scared of closed in areas)This is 2 weeks afterwards, and this is practically a week and half since it started. The stomachaches seem to be getting worse.I haven't taken a test yet, but I keep meaning to. I can't afford it though. But luckily, I may be taken to the doctors as my parents keep seeing me clutch my stomach that I complain is hurting. But, this morning when I woke up, my kidneys were hurting me. I got up to go to the toilet, and I felt out of breath. So I breathed in and my kidneys felt like they were filling up, and bubbling. So could it be a kidney infection? Or pregnancy? Or even both? I'm so confused, and I can't even talk to the "might-be father" as 4 days after conception, he stopped talking to me. After asking for 4 days straight if I was okay. It was also suspicious when he walked into the bathroom, it was like he wasn't telling me something, like the condom split (if he wore it) or something. I'm not sure.Any advice?
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reader, mashftw  +, writes (17 September 2011):
In all honesty, if you can't afford a pregnancy test, you can't afford a baby. Which stands to reason why you should always use a condom, as well as other contraception.
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reader, alwaysndforever  +, writes (29 September 2008):
goodluck- and dont ever tell someone not to wear a condom its something so minor that can turn out to ruin your life
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reader, OddOne +, writes (28 September 2008):
OddOne is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for the replies guys!
Michelle, I'll remember to update. : D
I don't want to talk him. He started to ignore me, so I blocked him through all internet things he can contact me through, (although he still has me on myspace, and he hasn't bothered.)
But I am going to the doctors, so it's all good. :D
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reader, Sandman +, writes (28 September 2008):
 The only true way to be certain is get a pregnancy test.
Hope this helps.
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (28 September 2008):
 You CAN'T talk to the man you had sex with or just don't want to?
If in fact you are pregnant, you should make him aware of the fact, merely because it's the right thing to do and he NEEDS to be a responsible party in this. Not saying he will, but hopefully he will not be in the list of NO GOOD sperm donors.
Asking him right now is not what you should worry about. Getting yourself to a doctor is!! For 2 reasons, you very well could be pregnant and should take care of that as soon as possible if you are and if you are not pregnant, something else is wrong and it could be getting worse, day by day!!
Get yourself to a doctor ASAP!!
Good luck and keep us informed sweetie!
Michelle
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (28 September 2008):
 Well, personally, I think you're pregnant. I think everyone else will tell you exactly the same thing.
I think you're a bit stupid for telling him that he didn't have to wear the condom. He could've had an STI or, what's possibly happened, gotten you pregnant.
Get a test done and if you are, do what's right by the baby.
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reader, OddOne +, writes (28 September 2008):
OddOne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to add, I have those weird montgomery tubercles on my breasts.
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