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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I speak to this girl everyday and have met up with her numerous times for quiet drinks and a couple of days out mainly on her suggestion. Question is does she like me? i'm really into her- i feel comfortable and enjoy her company. but i can't tell how she feels. She mentioned how she is overly nice to people and how people naturally seem to 'latch' to her and like her without reciprocation- am i one of these people thinking that there is something there when there isn't? We have a mutual friend who says that we both have said to him "so, we've been talking a lot...". He says we were both fishing for answers but he gave none to either of us. Does she like me? I feel the spark that may have been there to start with is going, but in a way the comfort level i feel makes me like her even more. I really like her and havn't had her out of my head for the last 2 months we've known each other! Does she think we're just friends? what should i do?
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reader, davey2008 +, writes (29 September 2008):
this is a tricky one to answer and must be dealt with gently. She says that people latch onto her with no reciprication on her part this could mean she is aware of how you feel about her and is giving you a hint to back off. But she asked a mutual friend how you felt about her not in soo many words but you get what i am talking about, does she cuddle you alot, touch your arms or your chest. Does she rest her hand on your upper leg when she is talking to you? does she always maintain eye contact? does she mimic your body language if she is doing all this then she is probably interested in you and waiting for to make the first move. Don't go rushing in like a bull in a china shop do it more subtly maybe suggest something that you would find more intimate than what you normally do i think a low lit nice restuarant would work quite well. This would definately let her know of your intentions and if she stil does all the touching and eye contact well the rest is upto you
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yours sincerely
davey
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