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writes:I broke up with my bf of 4 years about a week and a half ago. The reason I broke up with him was because he wouldn't make a commitment to me as in living together or marriage.I've been back and forth with my feelings. Sometimes I miss him and sometimes I feel I did the right thing.The thing that really bothers me is that he has made no attempt to contact me in any way. None! I contacted him twice. Once to return our things and one text message saying I missed him.I recently had a brain scan and thought he might call and ask about that but he hasn't.I am thinking maybe he really doesn't care at all anymore and breaking up with him was the right thing to do as he wasn't that into me anyway.Or I am thinking he is trying to wait it out and see who breaks first. I remember him telling me that one time when a friend wasn't speaking to me and he told me to just stop talking to her for a month.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (28 September 2008):
 I think it's time to let go now. Read these signs as him wanting to part from you, just as much as you wanted to part from him. Sending him texts saying you miss him will, I think, just aggrivate and annoy him. He never committed, and he's showing no signs of caring now. If he wants you, he'll come and get you. But start moving on now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): hi i have been through exactly what you have. life is hard and i have always been wondering what men or boys think about when their not with you anymore. he does care about you and he thinks about you daily. you breaking up with him was a good thing cause that shows him that you are in control of yourself and you will not be walked on. i didn't think my man was gonna come back but he did and told me he was scared and that was why he didn't seem like he wanted to settle down. he will, give it time and let him think it through cause if he does want you don't bother him with it, or you will push him away. he will come back to you, just sometimes you have to give it time and not rush it, commitment is a big word for guys and not females. your gonna be fine and happy soon, good luck. hopefully this helps you. and remember he does care about you, he didn't break up with you did with him, so that makes a big difference cause he probaly thinks you don't want him, so think about it and you will find the answer.
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