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I am unsure about my sexuality, how do I tell my boyfriend?

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Question - (16 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 17, female...and i am very confused! i have a boyfriend who i love but i cant stop looking at or thinking about girls!!! before i met him i considered myself bisexual...but i never knew for sure...i find women way more attractive than men...women are more attractive to me sexually, physically, and emotionally... i want to tell him that im confused but i dont know how he'll take it...i think hes ready to settle down but im not sure

please help me!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008):

Ask your boyfriend if he would like to do a threesome with another girl. You can make it sound like you want to do something super sexy for him.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2008):

At 17 NO ONE is ready to settle down.

You don't have to tell him if it doesn't affect him. If you want to stay with him then he doesn't have to know. Your relationship may not last forever and once it is over then you can go out and meet a girl if you want to.

However, you should be open with him about your future together. What has given him the impression that you are ready to settle down? Change his impression. Talk about how you want to see the world / get a career / do things in life BEFORE settling down.

Good Luck!! xx

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