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writes:HiI have a friend and we have this special relationship. We have kissed and flirted with each other quite a bit, yet we dont talk about it. However she knows that I love her because I told her quite a few times. I got drunk the other night and I called her and ruined the relationship. Appearently I demanded to know where we stand. Are we moving foward or just staying like this?. Im in love with her and I told her again and said some embarrasing things, now I've lost my friend, she refuses to talk to me. She said we need some time apart. She said I meant a lot to her and I am her friend and we are close, but she doesnt feel the same.My question has always been if she doesnt feel the same, why the flirting, kissing and never turning down my comments and advances? She has never said to stop, she has said that I need to make new friends.I feel she is denying her feelings. Ive decided to move on, but how can I get her out of my mind, or should I wait for her to speak to me?I miss her terribly...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): When we are together she flirts with me all the time. She says things like "when we make love it will be on my bed" she and I touch hands all the time..We were sitting at a bar and she asked me about our first kiss and I told her I liked it that she is awsome and I like her..She laughed and when I took her home she gave me the biggest hug ever so tight..when she wears mini skirts aks me to look at her legs, she will sit and lift a leg so I can see her undies..candle light dinners and great endless conversations
day and night--2-3 times a day not counting txt messages..She told me that will see where this goes to and also that I wont ever forget her. She is a puzzle because she is so indirect yet looks in to my eyes when we are so so close and stares in to my eyes and there is only silence,we dont speak and then we keep on going as nothing..She telles me what she likes sexually and when I said I wouldnt mind complying she smiles and there we go chaaning the converastion.Always avoiding..We are divorce but she has a bit of a hang up on her e while Im over mine..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): It seems like she likes the attention and ego boost you give her but she doesn't see it has potential for anything more than that.
She has made it quite clear that it will not progress beyond that so it looks like you will have to re-establish you friendship with her on different terms.
Can I ask what makes you feel she is denying these feelings? What reason would she have to do that? Are either of you married or in relationships?
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