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writes:we started dating 11/06. we moved in 6/07 and she broke off 06/08 on my birthday. she told me she did not feel loved. she lived with me until july 19. i went away for a week. upon my return, i made an effort to show her my love. she accepted my change and called me a few days after her moving out to get together. it was like we were falling in love all over again only better. her words. it has been great. we only see eachother a few days a week due to our work. her 25th b-day was last week and i made an effort to make it the best. she appreciated everything telling me how wonderful i am, how great and happy she is and how much she is in love with me. she stated that we are now official couple. then out of nowhere, she tells me there is a feeling that she thinks something is not right. tells me we went too fast and she wants to end it. she then calls me and asks if she can have a week alone to see if she misses me. i asked her if there is someone else or if she wants to date others. she said no. she just wants to be alone for the week to see if she misses me enough to get back with me, to see if she is making a mistake. her words. I told her that i would do anything to not lose her again. any advice will help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): do you really want to be with someone who tells you there is no spark, what does that translate to, that you dont turn her on, thats she isnt attracted to you, saying she loves you and its not you its her is a cop out, sorry to be brutal once again but this girl is playing you, dont wait around to find out the outcome use the week on your own to have some fun and see what else is out there for you, its very ver unfair to expect you to sit and wait, book a week off work and get away fromit all, you are worth more than this :-(
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reader, artvino +, writes (16 September 2008):
artvino is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe did tell me she cares for me too much to put me through her un-surness and so would not want to hurt me again. she feels that there is no spark. but she told me she might have been trying to convince herself that she does want what i want. She does love me but feels that she doesnt love me the way she should. I saw nothing wrong with the way she loved me. this week of limbo is going to be hell. i have a feeling she is just going to tell me that she is happier alone and fine without me. this is what i pray will not happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): let her have a week on her own dont even make contact, leave her to wonder what your doing and why you arent calling or texting she is clearly mixed up and playing with your feelings if you love someone set them free if she comes back then its yours to keep if not then move on with someone who doesnt play head games with you, sorry to be brutal but she seems very selfish to only consider her own feelings and not yours good luck keep us posted
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