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*nsomniacDreamer.
writes:I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 September 2008):
Well if she is a mother who is fine that her underage school girl is having sex then probably nothing will shock her. She already is fine with the fact you are easy with boys.
If you have to tell her about the fact that you enjoy sticking things in yourself then do it.
The fact that she's not bothered about you risking disease and pregnancy says to me that she probably won't care / want to know.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Devil Spawn  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 ummmm Why do you want to tell her in the frist place? Its something totally personal
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reader, InsomniacDreamer. +, writes (16 September 2008):
InsomniacDreamer. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, but she already knows that I know about that stuff: she knows I'm not a virgin and that I have sexual relationships, but I don't think that she, or in fact I could possibly begin to acclimatise to the fact that I masturbate...
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reader, calico  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 If I were you I would just tell her some kind of lie, such as 'hey mom.... what is masturbation and is it normal... b/c I heard some stuff about it and I dont exactly know what it means'
If you say something like that, she will probably just assume that you are growing up and are curious. Dont be afraid to ask... its perfectly normal. Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): Play it dumb. Just say, "mum i over heard some girls talking about masterbation, i got curious, what does it involve?" hope i help you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): Well i had that same problem and what i did was i went to talk to her a time that she was alone and the first thing i told her was:Mom can we talf....this is really odd for me but i really need to know how can a girl masturbate(pretending I didnt know)....and then she started talking to me about...is al about self confident
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