A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: ok, i dont know if im in love! ive been wit the same girl for 1 yr and 1 month and been faithful but ive been thinking about cheating on her! some days i wanna be with her and some days i wanna be single and be out meeting new girls! we fight alot and im very insicure so i dont know if that has anything to do with it! please help! its so hard for me to leave her cuz shes my first serious relationship and she lives with me! i would love lots of feed back! thanks! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (16 September 2008):
Maybe you moved to quickly to soon. If you want it to work then maybe move out as living with each other can put alot of pressure on a relationship! One thing never to lose in a relationship is independence and your own space!
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 September 2008):
Sounds like your feelings are fading.
You moved in together pretty quickly so I think you need to make a decision about what you want to do.
I can't tell you if you love her or not but if you are dreaming of freedom then it may show that you just love her as a friend and companion now rather than as a girlfriend.
Make your decision and then if you decide to go then move out.
Good Luck!! xx
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