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female
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30-35,
*asierToFallThanToForget
writes:Every relationship i've had i've ruined. As soon as a relationship starts getting serious or i start feeling to much i either end it or i act like a jerk and wait for the guy to end. I did this a few monthes ago with this guy i really liked and possibly could have loved. We dated fr 6 weeks befire i just broke up with him for no reason, something i hade been fighting with myself not to do. This guy was and still is one of my best friends and it hurts so much to have to see him everyday and know that becuase of my trust problems hes no longer mine. How can i stop myself from doing that? I really want to ask him out again as i know he still likes me but i dont want to put him or myself through another breakup. Our friendship wouldnt be able to make it and id prolly loose some of my other friends in the process. How can i learn to trust people, especially guys?Just for the a little backround. My father has been in and out of jail since i was 3, depsite promising to me everytime he gets out that he'll never go back, and my stepdad is an abusive alcoholic that i've had to live with for 8 or 9 years. I dont know what to do anymore..... i dont want to let them run my life but i cant seem to help it. I want to be able to trust this guy more than anything...trust that he wont hurt me....but i dont know how to.
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reader, xxbad77girlxx  +, writes (16 September 2008):
i think you should talk to someone who isnt family or a friend tell them everything u have bein trough then ask this boy out dont rush anthing then tell him bout ur trust and if he cares he will understand
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