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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My military guy is going on tour! I desperately want to be strong for him but i dont know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been living together for almost a year, i've never been so in love. I'm in a rough spot right now because he is in the military and these past 6 months he's been on course, away for most of the time. He's supposed to be done ...

My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tel...

I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't ...

Please can you help me get some direction in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family ...

We want to get married but I also want children; he doesn't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My name is Chrissy and my boyfriends name is David we want to get married and i want children but he doesn't he said they cost too much money and all they do is scream and cry i want children very bad what do i do??...

How can I break this vicious cycle? I need a miracle, I need to find my way back to how I used to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I've got bipolar disorder and most of my life I've been clinically depressed. I'm on medication for many years now, but you know what? When your life is miserable and sad then there cannot be no magic pill to make you feel better. I've got a PhD, ...

Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...

What does cut and uncut mean, penis-wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis?...

I'm a 64 year old male, and I have had a difficult time in getting the girl I dated in college out of my mind for the last 40+ years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - I'm a 64 year old male, and I have had a difficult time in getting the girl I dated in college out of my mind for the last 40+ years. I'm completely happy and satisfied with my wife and love her dearly, however, as hard as I have tried I can't seem ...

Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then ...

I've just left school and I need some ideas on what i can do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Iv just left school and i need some ideas on what i can do! Iv gt a part time job but theres not enough hours for me. My friends have gone on holiday and things with my boyfriend arent great atm. Im begining to feel really lonely and its really ...

I'm obsessed with a married woman. How do I get over my obsession??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - i am obesessed with a woman of 37..i am 57...we were workamates...nearly had sex..i panicked..now all i do is think about her..every waking minute of my life...i imagine her making love to her husband..my question is..how do i get over an ...

Should I try and resume the relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I went out with a guy for about five years. We broke up once during those five years and got back together again. About two years after that we had some problems that we didn't resolve, and he moved to the US. We recently communicated and i got th...

I'm have dark coloured skin and feel it's hard to fit in.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - What's wrong with being dark-skinned? I'm a dark-skinned girl and I want to know because sometimes I feel bad for my skin color and I feel unwanted because when I look at tv I hardly ever see anybody my color. I also get offended because my ...

I'm really under weight. I'm scared, but I won't eat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - im really under wieght i come in about 6 stone maxium i dont fit in to anything im below a size 0 in the uk im scared but i wont eat...what should i do?...

What really happens to the soul when we die???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I know someone who commited suicide. Now that I am dealing with ok - she had a pretty hard life; I often thought - I wonder how she copes and carries on with life. So that I do not need advice or counselling for - I am ok with it. What I am conc...

After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - After 30 years of marriage my husband confessed to a one night stand (20 years ago). His behavior during the first 20 years of marriage was selfish (did what he wanted all the time) without regard to me and our children. His actions in those years ...

My boyfriend is going through a divorce and is sometimes moody with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of two months is pending divorce from his wife. He is sometimes attentive and loving, sometimes moody and distant. I have done everything I can to show how I feel for him. Is this a lost cause or should I be more patient?...

I'm worried that I'll become bored with my marriage; can anyone give me hope about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Are there any married couples out there that don't find their relationships boring? And if so, how many years have you been together? I've been married once, and boredom set in rather quickly. I'm heading down the isle with #2 pretty soon, and I ...

Why do I always fear that I'm going to lose those I care about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - why do i always feel like i'm going to loose all the people around me ? i did loose previously alot of close frineds but the thing is i'm tired of this fear that eventually i'd be loosing everything in my life... so any ideas how to fix this ? f...

My religious boyfriend knew I wasn't a virgin when he asked me out but now, he has a problem with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi everyone! I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. He's very religious and is against premarital sex, but knew I was NOT a virgin when he asked me out. So far we've had a great relationship, but all of a sudden now he's upset over the ...

Any tips on how I can be better at sex on top!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - The guy am with and I enjoy sex and we try a lot of different things and it is really good, but he wants me to be on top. I have no problem with this and I have tried, but I am doing something wrong. I feel like I don't have good rhythm, and he k...

Whats supposed to happen and how will it feel when I orgasm ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Helloo.. well this is a bit of an embarrassing question. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now and we have recently started sleeping together. I can make him "come" but I dont seem to myself..this is the embarrassing bit i dont ...

How long does it take for the womens egg to travel down the fallopian tube

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Pregnancy Question: How long does it take for the womens egg to travel down the fallopian tube?...

Hes cheating with me, but wants to wait for his relationship to end naturally, How can I feel more at ease about this ??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - About three months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up, and a man that I had known and loved for five years (but never pursued it or said anything to anyone as he is attached and 18 years older) kissed me. Since then we have been seeing each othe...

Im falling for my best friend, but feel I'm too young for these feeling, what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I'm Falling For My Bestfriend and i know she has fellings for me....Last friday we had a pillow fight (like normal) she was dead hyper and so was i she kept pushing me on top of her...I felt strange and she keeps telling me she loves me...I think im ...

My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...

Its 7 years on and Im still thinking about her, do I tell her and risk the friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I'm 24 years old and have been friends with this girl since high school. We both kind of mentioned to each other back in high school how we liked each other, but she had a boyfriend at the time so nothing ever came of it. Flash forward 7 years and ...

How can I find out if my sisters friend likes me, without letting on I like him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - hi their i have a small problem that im not sure on how to tackle..my sister has this guy friend who is 5 years older than me and i like him hes cute funny and lovely personality and very shy..weve spoken a few times played paintball and stuff see ...

What if I was ready to have sex with him and didnt know it ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hello everyone. Recently I met this guy who I liked immediately and who seemed to like me too. So when I went to his place, we started making out and he wanted to go further but I said no. Mainly because I thought that I wasn't ready yet and I di...

Are there any products that are edible for a woman to enhance oral sex with a guy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - does anyone know of an oil or lotion thats edible to use to enhance giving a guy oral sex, want to supprise him and do something diferent but all that type of thing seem made for women, cant seem to find anything for a man...

We've been together a year and I'm too shy to talk about sex, any tips ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, our relationship is great but when we talk about our sex life i get shy. this is a bit of a problem because i would like us to try sumthing different altho i dont know what. can anyone help me? ...

I want to get over someone that I was'nt really with, but care for, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i in the middle of trying to get over some one who i was not with but some one i really liked, but now hes got a new girlfriend. i have such low self esteem at the moment which doesnt really help but i was wondering if anyone has any tips to share ...

He said hes not over his ex so we broke up, what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone - I was in a relationship with a guy for a month he had been chasing me for 4 months but i wasnt sure as didnt think a guy could like me that much....!! We started seeing each other and would make sure to meet me 2 or 3 times a week and ...

We want a secret marriage, hes 21 I'm 18 is this okay ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i want to have a secret marriage..without the knowledge of anyone..im only 18 years old ang my boyfriend is 21 year old.. do you think its ok???...

I dont want to break up with my girl to date the other, but know it wont last in my current relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I Have an amazing girlfriend and i love her. But before I started dating her i met another girl. I cant get her out of my mind and she is truly everything in a girl i could ever want. I never asked her out because she had a Boyfriend. But they broke ...

Stuck in a relationship I dont want as I was afraid to say no!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - Heylo. I really need advice about a relationship that I was forced into...sort of. Theirs this girl who I like. She's nice and everything, however I don't see her as being my girlfriend, and I'm not very attracted to her at all. Her friend ...

The night we announced our engagement he went and saw a hooker!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi, my partner and i have been together for 3 years we recently got engaged and today i found out that he went to a hooker the same night we told our friends and family the news.whats even worse is that the same day he got the hooker was the day we ...

I love him but part of me wants to break up with him as his parents dont like me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Recently, I found out that my boyfriend's parents... have discontempt for me. His mother told him "she's not good enough for you" and his father, on no real basis, thinks I'm a "druggie". Which I am not, just to state. I don't understand what I did ...

Still in turmoil over my ex, I want to date her, but dont think shes ready, but I cant let go!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I'm having trouble dealing with my ex-gf -- we had dated for a short while, wasn't too much into each other, then broke up when it was time to graduate from school and we had moved to different places. We have a somewhat odd relationship with each ...

I keep hearing the same promises from my husband, but they never follow through!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my husband for 10 years; we've always had our problems like every other couple. But the last two years have been hell. Both for myself and my children. Well i've told my husband that I'm through with this relationship and am ...

I love her, but I'm not in love. Should I stay, or should I end it with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a very sweet woman for almost 2 years now. It's the same old cliche: I love her but I'm not "in love" with her. I care for her very much, but i've never felt "in love" with her or felt any deep passion for this ...

I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and ...

How do I lower my expectations and be more realistic about life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - My expectations of life have always been quite high, ie I have always assumed things would be perfect and everything would turn out well in the end etc etc. ( like a film) However this has meant that life has let me down a lot. Nothing has ever gone ...

I know I should have gone to the police but I couldn't. I felt so ashamed, and feel it's my fault for being drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hiya, I would just like some advice if possible. I went on holiday for 2 weeks with my sister. The first night wewere out there we went out and had a few too many,(it was actually the only night we got drunk, other nights just merry). We have been ...

He had me drop him off a block from his jobsite --is he embarrassed to be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Is he embarassed by me? I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, we aren't exclusive and really just mess around. He calls me while he is at the bar, but never invites me out. That I can understand we don't have to be around each other all ...

My jealousy and pettyness ruined one wonderful relationship, and now is threatening another! How do I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - Hi there,, Ive read many of the posts and can relate to many of the tales of horrible all consuming jealousy, and Im amazed and ashamed that I actually feel a little bit better reading these posts and in some way feel close to you all, just today I ...

I forgave her for cheating, I love her so much, but I fear the relationship is dying, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - i really feel that my relationship is dying. weve been dating for one year and 8 months so far..i love her very much, and she is/was the love of my life so far. im only 20, but unlike most people my age, im only interested in long term relationshi...

I want to be with my boyfriend, But cant cut all ties with my (ex)husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 6 yrs. I had intimacy problems with my husband, I felt guilty after having sex and never wanted to recollect those moments. I met this guy after my third anniversary and became friends, eventually i started loving him, he is ...

She didnt tell me about being in contact with her ex's should I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - I'm 20, with a girlfriend (lets call her K). We've been dating for 7 months and a month ago began a long distance relationship. I love her to death and she acts the same way towards me. If anything I think she cares more. Never would I assume she ...