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*han14
writes:What's wrong with being dark-skinned? I'm a dark-skinned girl and I want to know because sometimes I feel bad for my skin color and I feel unwanted because when I look at tv I hardly ever see anybody my color. I also get offended because my boyfriend calls me black and it doesn't hurt right then but when I think about it,it does hurt. Any help, tips, ect. I would highly appriciate!!! P.s sorry for the long post!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Shan14 +, writes (30 July 2007):
Shan14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for ya'lls help!!!!
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reader, shivon1705  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Aww sweetypeople are just scared of whats diffrent than themyour skin is part of you and if people cant accept that sod them! go talk to people who accept you for youits not whats on the outside but the insidenever feel bad about your self because of the coour of your skin there are so many other people out there like you your not alonebe proud of who you are!as for your boyfriend you just need to tell him how you feel and ask him to stop itif he doesnt then he isnt really worth your timebut NEVER be ashamed of your self because of your skin you are beautiful just the way you arexx
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reader, rose cleeve +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Hi Hun, I am a woman of 39 and I absolutely love my skin colour, I'm english with indian blood in me, and quite a few men love the sultry dusky maidens to the pale ones TRUST I KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. If your boyfriend cannot appreciate for what you are ditch him, It is an absolute MYTH that Blondes have more fun, Brunettes can give these bleached women a run for their money, I have a blast with my friends and fellas. So please don't despair my dear and good luck x.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 Aww hun, be proud of the skin your in! If there arn't loads of dark coloured skinned people on the TV, it's only because your unique and that's a good thing!
If your boyfriend is labelling you, you need to sit him down and talk to him about it. Ask him to stop calling you such things because it really makes you upset. If he gets all defensive about it, just tell him that it's the way you feel and he should respect that.
Take care. Be proud!!
:)
xx
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