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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How did my partner manage to get into so much debt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together a year and a half and there is an age difference of 32 years (i'm 18 and he's 50) this is not the problem. When we first met he was out to impress me as all guys do but i thought he was different. he is the l...

I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - She is 18 and I am 24. Right now I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry. She even said herself see feels like we are room mates than a couple. That being said I really don't know what to do. I have to teach ...

Love confusion......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I met this really nice guy at school a while back I really like him but i was concerned about our age difference which is only a year, (im older) the other problem is he's a smoker, and he seems to flirt with a lot of girls. He says he likes me...

I am attracted to a man who is 14 years older than me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I am attracted to a man who is 14 years older than me and in a position of authority over me as he is tutoring me for an exam. He has shown an interest in me too with many very flirty texts (the kind that can not be misunderstood) and lots of ...

Should I pursue this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. He was a friend of my uncle, and we first met at my uncle's wedding. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again ...

Should I tell her that I am in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

22 March 2010 (M) - Ok so I'm in love with one of my best friends. We'll call her Carl, no she's not a guy and her real name is not Carl. Anyhow I've known her since she was born. I'm with her almost every weekend, of course it's not just the two of us, her cousin ...

I am 17 and attracted to older men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm a 17 year old girl, soon to be 18, and I tend to find myself attracted to men in their late 20s and early 30s. My whole life I've been told if I date a man so much older, then when I get into a relationship with a man my own age, it will ...

Should I cling to the hope we will fall in love one day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - I’m 13. I’m a really competitive basketball player, and I have been going to this training place for, oh, 2, years or so, to help with my conditioning. My problem is there’s this trainer who I have a huge crush on. Let’s call him “John”. He’s 22. ...

He's married but I got pregnant and now he cheats!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - I have a very serious problem i met my kids father 8yrs. ago and we started out having sex before we got to no each other i was very sexual back then i was young single, no kids and very dumb and i meet him and i was instantly hooked the sex was ...

Was our marriage doomed from the start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

20 March 2010 (F) - ive been married for one yr,wth hubby for 11-12 yrs now..he lives by mother,pays all bills,etc,while she's back and forth from abroad.she wants him to add on to the original home.suffice it to say,tht for more thn a month now,i have been mad as ...

Does my boyfriend want to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

20 March 2010 (F) - im 14, and my boyfriends 17.. we've been going out for a week, but it wasnt expected cos he doesnt usually have girlfriends, and i didnt think he liked me. we used to hold and hands and stuff, and now were together its just the same. he acts ...

Is this relationship with an older woman worth continuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 March 2010 (M) - A few weeks ago, I met a woman in my town and we had a sexual encounter. Since then, we have been seeing each other on a regular basis on the premise of nothing more but just fun together. I hadn't had sex for about 2 years until I met her but after ...

How should I feel about a younger guy having a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

20 March 2010 (F) - Hi all!! I work with a guy whom I think has a crush on me and that I could have a crush on him... I've only worked with him for a couple of months now... I took a week off and when i got back he hugged me and said he missed me... but lately thing...

Lost, don't know what to do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been married for 17 years. There is a 12 year age gap between me and my husband. At first it did not seem to matter, but now he has turned 50 and has no teeth, i'm struggling. I have had 2 one night stands in the past and felt very g...

Would I appear desperate if I texed her and suggested meeting up before the end of next week or might she be touched?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - I'd be grateful for advice please. A colleague who works in a different office has said that she's willing to meet up with me. She's said that she'll text me at the end of next week to arrange meeting up. I'm really keen to see her before the e...

Does she fancy a challenge

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

19 March 2010 (M) - Today i spent some time talking to a colleague at work. She is very attractive and of French extraction with a sexy voice. Asking her out she replied that i was a lovely guy but flirted with all the females, she did not know if and when to take...

Why is my 42 year old boyfriend obsessed with young girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My fiancé is 42 years old and I am a 24 year old girl. We've been together since I was 20. We get along great about 85% of the time and he treats me very well but it seems like he is obsessed with young girls and youth in general! Most of his/our ...

Is a few years apart such a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been on and off in our relationship for the last 5 years. I met him when he was 19 and I was 26 and despite the age difference we were instantly attracted to each other and have been friends and lovers ever since. Lately there has ...

I think my teacher is attracted to me, and I'm beginning to feel the same!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

19 March 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 15 years old and I am feeling this attraction to my teacher, thing is I feel like he knows, but is returning the feeling. It all started as a joke, my friends and I would make fun of our teachers, make petty jokes because we have some ...

Why am I sexually attracted to people twice my age???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

18 March 2010 (F) - ok so here it is i got a new music teacher in year nine who i fell head over heals for but he left at the end of year nine and then his replacement came in and im in love with this man who is "about" 27 and ive just not long turned 15 but i dream ...

I am in college again and I have noticed younger students can understand quicker, how can I catch up with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5353 days ago

18 March 2010 (F) - I've been unemployed and or underemployed for a long time. I have diagnosed myself with a light clinical depression. I know I have it because I had been diagnosed before and because I have studied psychology enough to know. I'm trying to stay ...

Should I stay for the sake of my son and miss out on an opportunity to be married and happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

18 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together, he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see which is funny because its been this ...

Should I stay in a sour relationship with a much older man for the sake of my son?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

18 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see. which is funny because its been this ...

Three months later and she still won't introduce me to her family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

18 March 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is 19 I'm 30! That has been going for 3 months. Her family knows me, 3 close friends of her know about her and me but she won't tell her family about her and me, she won't let me meet her other friends! She says she don't want to be ...

Am I the only one who fancies much older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and all the men I fancy or have ever been fixated by, may they be celebrites or people I know, are in their 30s. I've been like this since I started secondary school. If I walk past a guy who looks my age and is attractive, I am not interes...

I have fallen in love with an older, married man. How do I overcome the pain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - I started an apprenticship a year ago to be an offshore electrician. There I met a guy almost 20 years older than me (I am 21) who taught me on one of the offshore platforms. He looked after me really well and was so kind and taught me so much and ...

Does my teacher's behavior mean he likes me in the "wrong" way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - I need to know if this teacher in my school who doesn't teach me likes me. I'm being very serious, I'm not giving him any hints or egging him on that I like him. In fact, I wish I didn't like him...it would make life so much easier right now. Oh ...

Does my teacher's suppressed smile hold a hidden meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - Although he is friendly and chatty, he has a very dry sense of humour and is oh so serious and VERY level headed. He is definitely not one of those people that will laugh at every little thing, he is selective in what he finds funny, but he isn't ...

I want to be more than friends with him, but my parents would not approve because of his age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

16 March 2010 (F) - im in sixth grade and im in a good relationship....but there is another guy in 9th who i feel is more mature and better to talk to my parents dont approve and it would have to be secret. he had feelings towards me but when i said no he lost interest ...

Wonderful man but not enough sex and bad at housework

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

15 March 2010 (F) - Hi I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months and he moved in to my apartment after two and a half months. I know this seems soon and it is! However, I know others who have managed this successfully and we thought carefully about doing this. It...

How can I help my girlfriend overcome her trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

14 March 2010 (M) - I think my girlfriend is losing interest or getting scared. I have kids, I'm 11 y older, I'm divorced. She don't have kids, is going to University soon. My life is more stressful and more relax activity wise. My friends are all from differen...

Graduated and now engaged to my former teacher. How do I tell the world?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

14 March 2010 (F) - In a nutshell, my junior year of high school I had an intense "crush" on my English teacher. My senior year I didn't have him as a teacher but we still talked every day. Towards the end of the year things seemed weird between us. He was upset a lot ...

I have feelings for one of my professors. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

13 March 2010 (F) - I recently started school and I met this awesome professor. I have the biggest crush on him... It's just awesome to be around him, he's incredibly smart and witty but at the same time he's easy to talk to and incredibly funny... He's just awesome. I...

Will the distance be too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

13 March 2010 (M) - I'm 30 year old man she's 19 year old woman. I have 2 kids (girls) 8 and 6 years old. We started to be serious right away 3 months ago. She's going to university in 6 months. Now she lives only 1 1/2 hours away but then she will be 6 hours away! She ...

My crush on my teacher who doesn't see my good qualities, is keeping me from dating guys that do...how do I get over this crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

12 March 2010 (F) - I have had a crush on my teacher for a year or so, and every day I look for an excuse to stay in his classroom. It's odd because some days we seem to have interesting discussions, and other days we just do our own work. From time to time I see him ...

My teacher treats me different and its embarrassing me...does anyone have any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

12 March 2010 (F) - Hi. I have an enormous crush on my teacher. Yeah I know this is completely normal, but he's... I'll just say he's in his early fifties. I have never heard of anyone liking someone nearly forty years older than themselves... I feel so awkward ...

Breaking up with my girlfriend is leaving me confused and guilty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

11 March 2010 (M) - Hello, This is a very complicated story but I will try to make it as clear as possible. I am 23 years old and I am in the world of theater and entertainment, a great but also very difficult, risky business. I come from a very broken family an...

My friend wants to send our teacher a love letter.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) - One of my friends has got a huge crush on a teacher and she wants to send him a love letter. Well, I think it's a stupid idea and she'll just get herself in big trouble. What do you think about sending a teacher a love letter?...

Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) - i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so ...

How can I discuss all this without making the situation worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: I am 20 years old, by boyfriend of nearly a year is 31. for the longest time, we have been happy and telling everyone that "age is just a number". But lately, I've been beginning to wonder if there really are problems related to age a...

We love each other, but there are complications!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) - Okay so this guy..he's my best friend and he knows I love him and recently he told me he loves me too. Great right? I'm 14 turning 15 in two months and he's 19 turning 20 in a few weeks..hi brother is in love with me too (he's 17) we don't know ...

Life after my affair...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - I had an affair with a man 20 years my senior. We were caught by my husband. yes, I know it was wrong. Long story. Anyway, its been almost three months since we were caught. In the initial weeks after the affair there were lots of texts back and ...

Help! Feeling left out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - I am 43, hubby is 65 -- and we have been happily married 10 years. My husband has an only son, very mature and intelligent, age 30. My husband always accommodates and is deferential his son (who has never asked anything ridiculous) and has made it ...

I'm 20, he's 18. Is it weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm twenty and there's this guy I'm starting to feel attracted to. The only thing is he's about eighteen years old. I was just wondering if that's a little weird because it's usually the girl who is younger. I know it's not a big deal for ...

Would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

8 March 2010 (F) - this 16 year old guy seems to like me and i like him i want to go further than friends though which is ok. but im 14 hes 16 and i dont know how my mum will react to it and would he be classed as a sort of pervert because he's too old for me?...

I need advice and please don't joke around.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

8 March 2010 (M) - Ok, here is the situation. I’m 18, and currently working in IT as Server and Desktop support. I met this (most gorgeous, magnificent) woman at one of my sites. BUT she is 39 and has 2 kids! First is 11 second is 14. I’ve been through a divorce my ...

He rejected me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

8 March 2010 (F) - HI, i was recently got rejected by a man i like. He's 40 and i'm 25. I was hurt for sure, but i also know i have to let it go and move on. Because he's my roommate, i still have to face him every day so i told myself to act cool and pretende...

I'm 17 and I've met a guy 15 years older than me on the internet...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

8 March 2010 (M) - i am a 17 year old man and i met this guy on the internet nammed jeremy. we thought this would be a fun thing were we just got on cam and cum but instead we traded numbers and began to talk i like this guy we have showed our boddies off with pics ...

He loves me but is not 'in love' with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

6 March 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a man off and on for a year and 2 months. He is 10 years older than me and successful. We were casually hooking up last year and I stopped talking with him because I felt like he was only seeing me when it was convenie...

Why do I only like older women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

5 March 2010 (M) - Basically,what the title says. I'm 21,and seem to only be interested in older women.I don't know why this is. I have found younger girls attractive,but they just don't "do it for me" like older women do.I dont know how to explain it. I have no id...