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writes:i am a 17 year old man and i met this guy on the internet nammed jeremy. we thought this would be a fun thing were we just got on cam and cum but instead we traded numbers and began to talk i like this guy we have showed our boddies off with pics and videos but now he is thinking of coming to visit and im excited he said he would take my virginity away and he would hold my hand as we take a sroll! and ake me out to dinner and treat me well. the only problem is he is 15 years older than me what should i do? thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010): OMG sweetness this is a predator. You have to tell your mom about the whole thing. And you must report him to the police. He is dangerous to the society and he must go behind bars where he actually belongs.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (8 March 2010):
 you need to stop it with this guy. He is already in trouble legally and you are not helping matters by continuing the conversation.
If you or he thinks anything lasting will come out of this little fling you are sadly mistaken. Once the novelty wears off for you, you will move on to someone else simply because you have not matured enough to be able to handle the rigors of a serious relationship
Jeremy may be diluted enough to actually believe he may be able to develop a relationship with a 17 year old girl. He is a few rounds short of a full clip and a highly irresponsible person for even considering all this.
Do yourself and he a favor and walk away.
Moreover...be very careful who you talk to on the internet. Sure the laws will protect you legally but that will not help you if you are face first in a ditch. At 17 now is the time to start being responsible for your actions
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): This guy is a creep if he's that much older than you and you can't even spell, yet. You can do alot better than telling yourself he's worth doing anything with. Delete sick guys like that and don't worry about what they think..go out in the real world, not the internet, when seeking adventure or sexual passes. When your parents said never talk to strangers, they meant guys like that, including on the internet. Fifteen years older is waaayy to old for you, when you're seventeen. There's nothing to match up that's similar between people that old and people your age, besides him being sick and wanting to have sex with someone half his age or wanting to deflower them. That's gross..don't lower yourself any further, and get rid of him as quickly as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): You're are 17, and this is old enough in my book to make this decision for yourself.
However, you need to make sure of the Age of Consent laws in your state. In Australia, almost all states and territories hold the age by which you can legally consent to any form of sexual liasion to be 16. But not all of them.
The age difference does not concern me. Plenty of people have had long and fulfilling relationships with greater differences.
But it would be wise to avoid any sexual relationships with age differences of this kind until AFTER you finish High-school.
Plus it is also unwise to accept a realtionship with any man or woman who boasts of taking your virginity. That is for YOU and YOU alone to decide. No one else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010): i do not want to offend you in the slightest but the dangers of the internet are real and you should not be trading any sort of sexual image of yourself - what if you wanted to be famous one day and this guy decided to go to the press, would you want those images seen not only by millions but by your family and loved ones too? Even if you do not get famous, he could still sell them on to porn sites - what if your brother or father found those images.
also - you haven't even met this man and he's already talking of taking your virginity - do you really want your first time to be with someone you found on the internet?? Plus, if you want a good sexual experience then you are better having a long relationship build on love, friendship and trust etc. A stranger on the internet is not like love in real life - who knows if he has a family or is married in reality?!?!? What if he is a perv or something - he is old enough to be your father. Plus, in american it is illegal for someone under the age of 18 to consent to sex - do you like him enough to see him not go to prison then if so, do not under any circumstance sleep with him.
You are so young - try dating a guy your own age - if there are no young lads then wait it out - its better to have someone closer to your age and location - more likely is the relationship to work out.
I really hope you never meet or sleep with the man however i cannot control what you do as ultimately it is up to you - but if you decided to sleep with him, USE PROTECTION. Would your parents let you meet this guy if they knew???
Hun, please keep safe x
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