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writes:A few weeks ago, I met a woman in my town and we had a sexual encounter. Since then, we have been seeing each other on a regular basis on the premise of nothing more but just fun together. I hadn't had sex for about 2 years until I met her but after our third encounter we made love. She says I'm good and that she wants to keep this casual relationship going, which is fine by me as I'm only looking for fun at the moment. My main concern is that I'm just 19 years old compared to her, as she is 30 next month. She also has a 12 year old son, but is a divorcee. I have my reservations about continuing our casual relationship despite the fact we keep it to ourselve etc...is this worth continuing with?
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reader, twinlab99  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Dude..enjoy the moment, it won't last. You've got so many years ahead of you! Don't attach any emotion. You like her and that's great, but be honest and tell her it won't be long term, because it wont.....Harsh..but true...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Sounds great! You found a responsible woman that just wants to have a good time. I don't think she is looking to get married buddy. If you are having fun, your not doing anything wrong.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 I am a 29 yr old single mom. I like older guys. There are times when I am pressured by society's standard to have a family in the future but on other days I am just fine with raising my boy alone. I feel pretty content with having a boyfriend coming in once a week, calling me occasionally to check up on me. He used to tell me I need a husband and he shouldn't be stopping me from finding one. Do you do anything else but have sex? Do you care about her daily life and her kid? Having reservations is normal. Every single person you encounter with has great insight about life. Men and women learn from each other. Not every relationship has to be concerning marriage. You are 19 I don't see you getting married any time soon. The only thing awkward here is keeping it a secret from his son, which is 7 years younger than you. You are not going to marry this woman. People go in and out of our lives, some walk with us in a long journey, some short. It's all right to end it when you feel the experience is no longer necessary.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 March 2010):
If all you want is fun, then yes. But you seem to be having second thoughts. And if you're having second thoughts, then it's worth moving on for your own sake. So decide whether you just want this fun, or whether you want to move on.
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