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writes:I met this really nice guy at school a while back I really like him but i was concerned about our age difference which is only a year, (im older) the other problem is he's a smoker, and he seems to flirt with a lot of girls. He says he likes me, but i think he just wants to do me.He's a musician, as am I. He's in a band but I’m in 5... Everytime something great happens to me (being related to a tv or venue gig)He seems to pay a lot more attention to me... Like wanting something, sweet talk then idk...Another thing that bothers me is his ex. I don't think he's completely over her.I've gotten completely over our age difference since I look a lot younger.I've accepted the fact he gets high almost every day..it bothers me but I try not to show it. . . He says he likes me, but then I’m not sure he really does or just what I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your word of advice! i decided to follow it and i've met this great guy who is completely different and now my bf. Thanks again! :]
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reader, TimmD +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Aside from me thinking you are over-reacting about the age thing, which I know you said you are over....
Don't get involved. It sounds like you're just trying to convince yourself. If you look at all that you typed from an objective view you will see plainly that he is bad news. Run away.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 March 2010):
There are too many red flags with this guy. He's a smoker, something you don't care for. He's younger, which worries you. He flirts with other girls. He's not really over his ex.
All these signs, and the way you're thinking about him, suggest this guy is someone you should avoid.
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