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male
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36-40,
*mpty_Mirage
writes: Basically,what the title says. I'm 21,and seem to only be interested in older women.I don't know why this is.I have found younger girls attractive,but they just don't "do it for me" like older women do.I dont know how to explain it. I have no idea why I am this way. And no,I don't have an Oedipus complex or whatever.I have a mother,I don't need or want another one.Thoughts? Opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Psychic Moonstone  +, writes (5 March 2010):
Your not hurting anyone so go for it, nor doing anything wrong so go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): People, like what they like, there doesn't have to be a reason for it. As long as the older women you are going for are single and like you then there isn't a problem.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 March 2010):
 Older women are dignified. They seldom have a
screaming match with you at the opera or in
the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course,
if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you
if they think they can get away with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Older women are more confident in themselves, their bodies, their thinking and they know where they are going in life.
No harm in dating an older woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): This is a simple one. Older women are a lot more mature than younger women. They're more experienced in life and you won't have most of the childish tendencies that you would in most cases.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 March 2010):
I'm the same as you. I'm even dating an older woman. For me, it's the difference in confidence. A lot of woman my age (22), are still defining themselves. My girlfriend already knows who she is and is happy for herself. Maybe it's just that you prefer a more confident, mature woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): i dont know why... but you arent alone by any means. as a 43 year old woman i am very aware that happens fairly often. Ive been more than a little more than suprised at the attention my age group recieves. But then again whats not to like? Just kidding. There used to a song...'older women.' check it out, maybe on youtube. Mal
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (5 March 2010):
Older women have a lot of things that younger women don't. Confidence. Wisdom. An ease and comfort with themselves. They don't freak out over every little thing. They don't bring the drama unless the situation really warrant it. They are into their own lives. They know more. They know what they want. And what they don't want. They can carry on a conversation that goes deeper.
It has nothing to do with Oedipus. You are probably just attracted to all these types of things that time and age brings that younger girls haven't earned yet.
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