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Should I stay for the sake of my son and miss out on an opportunity to be married and happy?

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Question - (18 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *pringluv2 writes:

my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together, he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see which is funny because its been this long. there are a lot of other factors that make our relationship sour. on the other hand i have met this guy who is very sweet we get a long and tell each other how much we like each other, he tells me im beautiful every day, he is also close to my age he is 29. I am not sure what to do because i really like this guy but my bf and i have a son, should i stay for the sake of my son and miss out on an opportunity to be married and happy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

it will do your son good to see you happy. always remember that kids are influenced by those around them especially in the family. if you are not happy you can not have full control over urself thereby you cannot be able to take good care of ur own son. do whats best for u and ur son. ur boyfriend has already had all the fun in his life and that's not fair to u. u need attention and u need to feel loved which is normal at ur age. take a break and move on with ur loved son.

good luck

xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

I thank you everyone for the comments and I have came to the decision after some thought and prayer to give my bf a break but not hop right into another relationship! My son should see me happy not upset!

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A male reader, Psychology101 United States +, writes (19 March 2010):

Why not give happiness a chance. Take a break from your bf. and see what else you have outy there. Give it a chance. PM if you need to vent.

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