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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I've met a guy online. Should I cancel my plans to go and see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - So I've met this younger man on a dating website. He used to live in my area, but has moved back home because he is training for a fight. We instantly hit it off for a couple months and called and text each other almost every day. He recently...

Does this age difference matter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Hello Iam 28 years old and my boyfriend is 51 years old. Will this age difference create problems down the road if we want to get married?...

How do I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do...

How should I feel after 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the most lovely guy for five months. The problem is I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I am not sure if I should by now? He is lovely, we get on really well and have fun together but I don't want to find ...

My best friends mum

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...

I feel really empty now I've broke it off. How can I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Okay im not doing well at all, we have seperated me and my guy (hes 26 im 15) i kno its a big age gap. I told im it was time to give it up bekoz of our age gap plus the day after we were found out anyway. i miss him so much, i was so close to him ...

I'm 16 and he's 24, I'm unsure if this relationship will last.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - hi.I am 16 years old gir,and I am going out with 24 old boy.I don't think that the year difference make our relationship immposible,there are another reasons.First reason that makes us separated for a time is that he is always on move.Today is in my ...

I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...

The sex is great but he's married

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...

I want to meet him, but I also want to do the right thing.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - Dear cupid I am 29 and I met a really cute, sensitive and ravishing guy who said he was 18 online. We exchanged pics, spoke on the phone and chatted on Msn a lot. Then we planned to meet up next Sunday, and he suggested we could go for a walk in...

Beware of Creep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I don't want to be with my fiance that I broke up with 2 weeks ago, but why can't I stop thinking about who he is with next? Do guys move on faster than girls? He already went down to florida for like two weeks and it looks like he already has new ...

I am 12, he is 28. We are in love and he says he wants me to move in with him as soon as I am 16.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - About a month ago I met a really sweet guy at my aunts wedding. I'm only 12 but i look alot older and people tell me i am a lot more mature than my age. He's 28 and he works with my aunt. Pretty much everyone in my family knows him and they all seem ...

14, my boyfriend is 16. Why are boy his age so obsessed with Sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response ...

Am I reading too much into this? What do you make of my potential boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I recently moved to a new city, been here for about 4 months now, and found a new job. With this, I found some new friends. Two guys and a girl. One of the guys, and the girl have partners, so of course that left those two saying something was gonna ...

I want to have sex, will it hurt?

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?...

Can a long distance relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to d...

I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...

Please help me. I love him and will never be able to forget him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Hi! I had posted a question but I think the readers dont get a proper idea of what Iam trying to say.So I clear it again. I love a guy who is younger to me.I told him about my feelings and he said he only wants me to b his friend.His behaviou...

I'm grossed out by his behaviour. I need some reassurance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Is his behavior appropriate. My ex-fiance (thank God he's an ex) used to do a lot of things that made me worry. And one was he was 34 (i'm 24) and he talked to a 17 yr. old because it was his 22 yr. old friend's younger sister. anyway, I remember ...

It's been a year, but I still have a crush on my teacher. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I graduated from High School last year and I've recently met my old Bussiness Law teacher at a festival in town. I had him last year and I had a huge crush on him and I still do. What I'm wondering is, if I was to go out with him could he get into ...

I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) - theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and ...

I like a guy but the age difference keeps holding me back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Hey I am a senior in high school and im 17. I like a guy who just turned 15 so im over 2 years older. Im more worried about the age difference for his sake because i can deal with what people say, but i dont know how it would affect him. I think he ...

Should I go behind my mum's back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - i'm 16 years old and my partner is 20 and we have came very close to having sex but i still dont have any protection yet. i was thinking about going on the pill but i know if that i told my mum she would freak out but i'm wanting to go on the pill ...

I want a baby, but he thinks he's too old. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - Just read the things other people have said about being in an age gap relationship and it sounds like there are a few people on this site with some experience who could maybe help me with my dilemma. I'm 27 and my OH is 59. We've been together 6 ...

We have an age gap. Will it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - I have been friends with a man for 7 months. He is 34, I am 48. We had worked together and decided that we could not be more than friends for this reason. I recently took a job in a different location, same big city. We have discussed taking our ...

He says I'm too young, but...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - So I like this guy who just turned 20. I am 16. The day before my 16th birthday, I went to his house (I am really great friends with his sister, and whole family, thats how we met). We don't usually talk a lot when I'm over there, because I am over ...

Prince Charming or Mr Reliability?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - Confused! I have been in a loving relationship with a man aged 40 for approximately 6 months, he adores both me and my disabled son. However he just doesnt make my stomach turn over when he walks in the room. He also has a problem with cannabis us...

I don't know what to say, and feel bad for what happened.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - ok well i had a boyfriend i was with for 8 months we was always arguin like everyday and then he started pushing me over and i was fallin on my bottom and hurtin myself then he started threatning to hit me but he never did he was starting to push me ...

I look too young...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - i am 14 5'2 and i look about 12 i hate looking younger i realy want to look my age or older i have been told i am pretty which is nice but all i want to do is look older what make-up can i wear to make me look older (without making me look like a ...

Many differences, how do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a man that I have a wonderful relationship with, but we face a few potential challenges: 1) He is from South India, and I am a white American woman. This does not interfere with our connection at all; we both consider ourselv...

How to tell him I want more than secret text love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - this is realy complicated so i am going to try my best to explain.... i live in a pub and get along realy well with a certain customer who is nine years older than me, about two month ago we were talking over the computer and he told me that he ...

I am not sure if he is too old for me or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - My young 65 year old husband whom I adored and he did me,died 18mths ago. He told me to find somebody younger next time. I have fallen in love with a young sometimes childish 70year old.When I am with him everything is great apart from him being too ...

He told me what he did with prostitutes, and it turned me on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - hi i need help ive been with my partner 25 years not a brilliant 25 years but even so i do love him he has in the last two years seen 3 prositutes i was totally gutted, never felt so sick in my life just could not imagine he would ever do that, he ...

He's a mama's boy. How do I get him to spend time with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

13 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is a Mama's boy...how to I get him to separate? He is 21 and still lives with mom. Never lived out on his own. I am slightly young, have a job and live on my own. I want him to spend time with me but i cant get him away from mom. She ...

I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) - Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it a...

I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

12 October 2007 (F) - hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him ...

Is my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...

His family are pressurising him. How long do I give him to make the big decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - I am a 25 year old with a 5 year old son who has been dating a 19 year old guy for 3 months. He is by far the best boyfriend I have ever had and makes me really happy. I am in love with him and I know he is in love with me. I have insecuri...

I'm 18 and like a guy who's 41. Love has no restrictions........right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - What should I do? Im 18 and there is this guy I like who is 42. Im a big believer in age aint nothin but a number. Ive always been attracted to older guys (and country guys but thats another story). I would definitely say I am mature for my age. My ...

Do I tell my best friend's brother how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 October 2007 (F) - I've been extremially close with my best friend since Kindergarden. Starting over the summer i started to like her older brother, she knows this, and constantally said that he likes me back. Then i moved away, halfway across the country to be exact. ...

I'm 16 dating a guy who's 22. Do you think that's wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - I'm sixteen and i just started dating a 22 year ol that i met at a concert.. Our relationship is purely innocent. The idea of sex hasnt even came up. He is really respectful and we connect and a different level than age. I really and truly in my ...

Do I tell my teacher how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - I'm a legal adult now. I really like him and want to buy him presents or do something else nice for him *blush*. Unfortunately there's still a large age gap between my teacher and myself (He's actually around my dad's age *ugh*). I was ...

My Online interest told me he loved me after 3 weeks. He already talk of marriage. I really want to meet him, but I live in Wales and he lives in the US...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - hi im part of a teen support online forum. i love it and have great friends on there. i got talking to a guy from texas and we really clicked. after about 3 weeks talking he said he loved me. after a while i said it back as i really liked him. tro...

I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...

Could he care for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

6 October 2007 (M) - I am 16 while my bf is 25. We've been going out for five months now but I'm not sure if he loves me. He admitted of being a player but told me he has changed for me and that he is crazy about me and adores me. We live in different states and we only ...

Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? Should I ignore him to find out what he does? I'm confused by his interest in me and the age gap.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - Hi, an international student has shown an interest in me, but there is a great age gap between us, he is much younger than me, and I am from Great Britain. Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? He talks about marriage and ...

He's 21, I'm 14 Should I ruin my plans OR dump my love.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

6 October 2007 (F) - hi ive ot a problem because i'm young(14) and my boyfriend is older(21).please don't tell me how wrong our relationship is n illegal i've heard it so many times. my mom isn't worried shes meet the guy and she lets him stay round every night which i ...

My daughter has turned her back on her family in favour of an older man! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Help me my daughter 19 previously a loving member of our family has found a 34 boyfrind(manfriend) who has whisked her away to live in a flat with him. We have never met him, and although we tried to reason with her, and then just resorted to being ...

I have a huge crush on my 58 year old vice pricipal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I am 17 and I have a huge crush on my vice principal and he is 58. He is always saying that I look stylish he is always placing his hand in my hair when I talk to my other teacher. Is he jealous? When I am with my friends he only says "hi, how are ...

I am engaged but recently hooked up with another guy - my former teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Okay, first of all I know I've been stupid but I really need advice! I'm 20 and left school about 3 years ago and during my last two years I developed a huge crush on one of the teachers. I am now engaged to a different guy but about two weeks ag...