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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I had posted a question but I think the readers dont get a proper idea of what Iam trying to say.So I clear it again.I love a guy who is younger to me.I told him about my feelings and he said he only wants me to b his friend.His behaviour is very different towards me,it seems as if he doesnt realize that he loves me.I will describe the situation clearly.I went to my uncles house,I and this guy became friends that time.When we met for the first time (just for 5 minutes)I gifted him a bracelet,as I went shopping and he asked me what had I brought for him.so I gave him the bracelet and he liked it. After a year when we met (He came to meet me specially from delhi)he brougt some gift for me but I refused to take.He felt bad but understood what I may be feeling. As we stay too long,we never met frequently.We used to speak on phone.He used to call me many times a day.I got used to his calls so much that if once also if he didnt call I would feel too lonely and cried a lot,lot..One day I proposed him.He said he only wanted to b my friend as he did not want any special kind of relation with me.He said he would never go opposite to his parents.His parents wont accept me,so.Again when we met that was the time when he behaved too closely to me.I thought he must have realized his feelings for me,but I was wrong.I again asked him whether he loved me or not,again he said the same.Everytime ,now also he feels like meeting me whenever I tell him I am going to a tour or elsewhere with my friends.My friends say that he is a flirt,but I know that he is not.He is very caring towards me.He always tells me whatever happened everyday.Now a days he is too busy that he doesnt have time to speak to me.But then too he finds time(even of 5 minutes)to speak to me.but not everyday as we first used to.I recently told him that I was going for a seminar to nasik,he told immediately that "I will come to meet u,if possible,if I get time".I felt really good that he really felt like meeting me.There is nothing wrong between us but Why is his behaviour like this? Does he love me?Please can U tell me whether he luvs me or no?What should I do next if we meet again?allow him to behave the same as first when we met?please help me I love him and I will never b able to forget him.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Dear anon
I love the way you said he is indifferent to you and does not realize he does love you, i liked that bit the best, tears are still running down my face,the reason he is indifferent to you IS BECAUSE HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU, what bit about that do you not you understand, you cannot expect a guy have a girl come up to him and say this is the way i feel and now do you love me the answer will be NO, you need to get some one else as a boy friend and leave this poor guy alone.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
I cannot help you get more from him. I suggest you get what he is willing to give. Also look for a new boyfriend.
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