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Could he care for me?

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Question - (6 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2007)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *rettyp writes:

I am 16 while my bf is 25. We've been going out for five months now but I'm not sure if he loves me. He admitted of being a player but told me he has changed for me and that he is crazy about me and adores me. We live in different states and we only get to see each other if he comes to my state. I do must of the calling cause I love him very much. I am not sure if it is because I am beautiful cause he tells me most times that I am or that he loves me.

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A female reader, dafni Cyprus +, writes (7 October 2007):

dafni agony auntdo you really think that a relationship with a guy who's 25 is gonna work?no,i think not!maybe he is just playing with you.or maybe he loves you???....

you are the one who's gonna decide if he is telling the truth..

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A female reader, DeeinWA United States +, writes (7 October 2007):

First, you can be sure that he is not "alone" while he is away from you. He is 25 and has admitted to being a player. You haven't changed him. Once he gets what he wants from you, he is through. He isn't looking at this as a relationship at all. You are a means to an end and when he is done, you will be left in his dust. Just because he's older does not mean he's mature.

You need to step away from this guy and focus on what's right there in your face. He's saying all the "right" things to keep you satisfied. This is a one-sided relationship. You are the only one in it.

Get out and find someone your own age and don't give him another thought.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (7 October 2007):

rcn agony auntI had you right until the end. I can't seem to figure out what it is you are asking.

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