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Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? Should I ignore him to find out what he does? I'm confused by his interest in me and the age gap.

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Question - (6 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi, an international student has shown an interest in me, but there is a great age gap between us, he is much younger than me, and I am from Great Britain. Does he want an English person so he can live in the UK? He talks about marriage and buying me a house. But I was awful to him recently because I am confused about what it is he wants. Then I tried to apologise to him and told him that I think maybe I am in love with him. Then he dissapeared for 5 days and now he has started to text me again. Should I ignore him to find out what he does?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

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These people are from Africa but they are not poor. Also why do they need me when they have a study visa and then they can apply for a work permit to work in the UK? Anyway I have been nasty to this young man because I am confused about his intentions to me. therefore he told me to leave him alone,but he has since txt me and was friendly.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

wow hun. To Be Quite Honest I Had This Happen To Me TWICE And Im Under 18 :|. They Were Both From Another Side Of The Earth( Egypt And Iran and im in Canada) I Didnt Love Them But Man They Loved Me. And They REALLY Wanted To Come Here And Marry Me And Have Kids And All That Stuff But It Was Only Because They Wanted Marrage Visa's To Get Over Here And Live Away From War And In One Of Their Cases Their Family. Hun Dont Trust Him,Sorry To Sound So Blunt But Its True. Personal Experience.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

If I were you I'd be very wary of this chap. You don't say how old he is or where he's from or even where you are at the moment, but of course there's every possibility that he's after a UK passport or something.

How do you intend to find out what he does by ignoring him?

I think you need to find out a lot more about him before falling in love with him. You could be falling for his alter ego, so be careful, it could all end in serious heartache for you.

Phil

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