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anonymous
writes:i'm 16 years old and my partner is 20 and we have came very close to having sex but i still dont have any protection yet. i was thinking about going on the pill but i know if that i told my mum she would freak out but i'm wanting to go on the pill just as a pre-caution incase we get carried away but i'm sure that she wouldn't understand that. So what do i do do i tell her or go behind her back?
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reader, dontworryiknow +, writes (9 November 2007):
 its all up to you now , now that your 16, i would go on the pill and use condoms if hes 20 hes probably had more sexual partners so just in case he has something he dosent know about maybe its also best to get him checked out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): of course i would be using condoms as well, i'm not about to through my life away by just using the pill, i wanna use both so then i'm double sure i'm safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): you should REALLY use condoms!!!!!!! do you want to die? just because he looks clean and you like him alot does not mean that he is not carrying and STD. im assuming that the both of you did not go the the doctors for and STD screening, right? BE SMART. life is too special to not protect yourself. i dont understand how so many people think that using just the pill is o.k. yeah, you dont want a baby, but doesn't the thought of AIDS scare you more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): you should deffinately tell her, she may not be happy with the thought of her daughter havin a sexual relationship but im very sure that she will respect you for makin such a big descision. just talk to her and tell her how you feel about you bf and how you are wantin to take it to the next level but want to take preautions. im sure she will be more pleased that you have confided in her than not told her at all. put it this way i think she wud rather you be on the pill than get pregnant. if you want to have the best contreception available i would advise you to get the rod thing in your arm that lasts for 3 years it works 100% where as the pill isnt that reliable. good luck
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Well if you cant be honest with her and say why your really going on it her tell her your periods are really heavy and irregular, but to be honest she doesnt have to know your old enough to have sex and its free and im sure your mum would understand if she found out better then having a grandchild on the way
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