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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Does the neighbour girl mean what she said about having no boyfriend? Should I have a go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6960 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Hello, Ok this does sound stupid but it really makes me mad right. I am 16 male live in England. My next door neighbour is 30yr old women has a middle sister of I think 27 and a younger sister of 24. Now!!! I really fancy the younger one 24...

Two guys, neither wants what I want right now. Do I wait or carry on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6961 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a 28year old girl and have been seeing a fantastic 37 year old man for the last 2-1/2 years and had a really great time with him. The problem being this man does not want the whole marriage and kids thing and just wants to have a good time ...

My ex is looking for a woman nearer to his own age, but he still wants me close, too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6959 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man for 4 months. He broke up with me to find a more age appropriate woman. Yet he keeps calling me and wanting to see me and have me in his life. He says I am his best friend, that I am nicer to him, and that he enjoys ...

My girlfriend is 28 years older than me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

29 October 2005 (M) - I am 16 and dating a 44-year-old woman. My dad said "If it makes you happy son, go for it" but my mum is furious and only a few close friends are happy for me. What problems could our relationship face? Jason (16) from Manchester, UK...

Mom would freak out if she knew my online guy is 11 years older!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago, and we've dated over the internet and over phone conversations for about 6 months. We started out really slow and now I love him more than anyone I've ever dated. Well, I'm only 15 and he's 26 and we live in ...

My boss is twice my age, but I think I'm in love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6948 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and I work in retail. The job I've been in for over a year now, and the problem is I love my boss. However, he's 40 years old - twice my age - and has little idea about how I feel. I really don't know what to do! I don't kn...

My ex is pregnant, won't leave her boyfriend, but still has sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - I was with my ex girlfriend for 1 year. She's 26, I'm 40. She was in love me but never told me. I pushed her away, told her to find someone her own age. She met someone else, moved in with him and got pregant 3 months later. They have only bee...

My instructor is always staring at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Hallo, I need help because I don't know how to interpret my teacher's behavior! During class, he's constantly staring at me, even if I hide behind my neighbor, he finds a way to look at me. I already asked him several times, if it was me who shou...

When I tried to break up with my boyfriend he threatened to kill himself or "make my life hard"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - Help, I have only been dating my boyfriend for three months and he has always been very kind to me, but now that I want to end the relationship, he has changed. There are 15 years between us and although it bothered me, I went along with it. I trie...

I had fun and independance until I moved in with my 40-year-old boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

27 October 2005 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months. After him meeting me he wanted me to move in so I moved in. After 2 months as I knew at the time, it felt right for both of us. Now the problem is I don't feel anything toward him anymore! I used ...

Was my friend hinting around that he's interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - I went out to lunch with a guy that I'm just friends with(but have suspected that he has deeper feelings for me). He started to ask me all sorts of questions, mainly about where I was going to find the guy of my dreams, and that prince charming ...

My co-worker is always brushing against me. Is it friendship, or flirting... or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Hi Everyone!! I Need HELP!! but my problem is a bit unusual....some might think it even as being funny...but its bugging me really bad....let me explain. I am a 31 year old male but everyone says I look much younger and I really do look you...

I'm 17 and in love with my married, 50-year-old, female boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6965 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - Hey dudes, okay, here goes... I'm a 17 year old female and have a part-time job in a restaurant. I am very close with both my bosses who are married, but I am the closest with my female boss *Amanda. For the past year and a half I have had sexua...

My friend is an adult, but I think her sleeping with her half-brother is self-destructive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hi. I recently found out a very close friend of mine has been sleeping with her half brother. She is 18 and he is 31. They did not grow up together and only met two years ago. I am the only one that knows after she told me drunk one night – since ...

I can't believe I'd have to wait 2 more years to legally date the guy I'm interested in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I am 16 and have liked older guys since I was 13. I figured that it was just a phase and that eventually I would get over it, but I haven't even been interested in a guy my age in so long that I'm beginning to think that it's not just a phase. I...

My 48-year-old woman says she'll wait until I turn 16. That's next week!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - Hi...I'm a 15 year old boy who has really strong feelings for a 48 year old woman, and I know that she feels the same, as we text and talk to each other every night. She's told me she loves me and I know that I love her. She's told me that if ...

He's 25 and I'm 15, but it's not about sex..!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6777 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm seeing a 25 year that lives an hour an a half away. Everyone thinks that our relationship is wrong and that he is using me for sex but he hasn't even asked once, but no-one will believe me. I love him very much and he loves me also. ...

He won't let me go out and have fun with my friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I am thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend but.... I am 17 and my fiance' is 24, I do care about him but he is too possesive over me. I just want to grow up and go out with the girls and spend time with my friends but it will destroy him...

Is it normal for someone like me to be so obsessed with much older men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6958 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid! I am a 16 year old girl and I'm having a massive dilemma: I seem to be attracted to men much older than me.... not just attracted actually, I'd say I am almost obsessed! I fantasise about my maths teacher, my english tea...

We're in love, but I don't dare tell my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6825 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm currently seeing a guy. He's kind, gentle, sweet, funny, caring - EVERYTHING I've always wanted. He handles situations with ease and calm, and he's just --- OOH! Perfect! I really, truly love him. And he loves me, too! ^_^ I know th...

It can't ever work out, but I'm in love with a married, older woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6972 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I'm 17 and I have fallen in love with a 22 year old married woman with a 2 year old kid I used to work with. She has also fallen in love with me. We have seen each other quite a lot since I left my previous job. My heart constantly aches and so ...

It's always me that does the asking. Does that mean he doesn't like hanging out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6973 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - How can you tell if someone who’s shy and slightly introverted really likes you or not? If I’m the one always asking him to hang out and he says yes, but has only asked me to hang out once or twice, is that tell tail sign that he doesn’t? We’ve ...

My girlfriend is gorgeous, she makes me happy and we have so much in common. There's just that age gap...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I have been seeing a girl from work for a few months now and there is a bit of an age difference, like I'm 31 and shes 18. At first I thought I was attracted to her just cause she's got a smokin' body,and that's good stuff since I've never had a gi...

If there's no connection, like he said, why is he so sweet and kind when he's with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6975 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Tying to figure out if this man really actually likes me or not. I'm in my late twenties and this guy I like is in his early fourties. We work together and he is a very awkward and shy person. At a company get party I got buzzed and told him how ...

I'm 13 and he's 19. We've been texting, but I want to move on to more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - I met this boy who I really like at a fair that always comes to town. We each got other people to swap numbers. Anyway we have been texting for about a year now and both said we like each other, but we have been with other people. I see him every da...

It's not just an infatuation. So what are my chances with the instructor?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Hey I am a 17 year old girl, and I have been in love with an english teacher at my school for the past 2 years( He is in his early thirties). I want him so much, I know I do, it is not just infatuation. However, I don't want his career to be...

No explanation, and he blanks me when I see him. What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - Hi I was seeing a man 10 years my junior for 2 and 1/2 years. We were amazingly in love, couldn't bear to be apart but he started wanting to be "free", i.e see other women, so we split up but remained very close friends, still constantly in each ...

Is the great sex worth her controlling behaviour?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm 27 years old. I have just started a new relationship with a 37 year old women. At first I thought she was great, but now I am finding her very dominating towards me. She dosen't feel comfortable with any type of public affection (holding hands), ...

Everything I try to discuss with my boyfriend turns into an argument. Is it the age difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I am a 31 year old female. My boyfriend is 44, once divorced. We have been dating for 2 years. He is a wonderful man, I didn't know people like him still existed. He treats me with the most respect, very kind and understanding and great with my ...

My ex-teacher shares his romantic life with me, and I can't stand it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I'm madly in love with my ex teacher and it's killing me. Recently he got married and he emailed me telling me all about it, when I just don't want to hear it! He says we can't be friends and yet he tells me his life story and I do the same. Th...

My teenage son is discussing marriage with a woman of 44!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I found out recently that my 16-year-old son is dating a 44-year-old woman. I worry about him - the age gap is 28 years - and I fear he will have a lot of problems. He's talking about marrying her too - and she wants to marry him too! What ...

She had sex once with someone in her past, and I just can't move past that thought,,,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

12 October 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for over 3 months now. We are 15 years apart. (we're of legal age--I'm older) What started off as just a "for fun" thing turned into an all out love extravaganza, and I do love her dearly. We do everything together...

Will our 10-year age gap be a problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - He is 28 and I am 18 and he has a 8 year old daughter. However our age difference has become a problem for both sides of the story. We are afraid that our families won't accept the relationship. I have tried to mention the situation to my mother. ...

We're really in love, but our parents don't know about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - Hi I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18. I want to start this off by saying yes, we are sexually active and we both dont see why age matters so much. We are both in love; I mean real love! Some say why is he into a younger person and why am I into an ...

Attracted to the girl-next-door, but she's only 15...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6856 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - Confused male. I am nearly 20 and recently I have found myself having feelings for my next door neighbour, but she is 15. I don't know what to do about it. Can anyone help? I mean it's only 4 years difference. Does this matter?...

I'm 6 years older than the guy I think I'm interested in. Problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6983 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, he is 17. I really do like him. We like all the same kind of stuff and I am attracted to him and I kinda get the feeling he likes me too. Is it wrong? I think people would have a problem with it. Is it weird? I know it could never be anyth...

Am I in love with my teacher, or is this a crush?

This question has 81 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

7 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone I am 16 and I want to know if I am in love with my 33 year old school teacher. I have meetings with him as he is my mentor, but whenever I see him my knees go weak and I get butterflies in my stomach really badly. I find it really h...

My husband's affair with a much older woman has been going on for 4 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, my husband is 25. I found out he was having an affair with a 63-year-old woman who lives down the road with us after a friend who worked at a hotel told me he'd seen my husband kissing an old woman in the restaurant. I feel disgusted ...

My online girl and I fell for each other, but then her mum found out...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

1 October 2005 (M) - I met a girl online and we hit it off from the start. We would talk like every day for hours on end. I really fell for her (we never met) but the thing is, she is only 14 and I'm 19. The age doesn't bother me. We agreed on waiting till she was older ...